Past Father, Future Child Podcast

It's Not About Loosing Control, it's The Opposite


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πŸš€ Ever wonder why you give in to those impulsive urges, even when you know better? It's not a lack of willpower; it's a profound, albeit misguided, attempt to reclaim control in a life full of "have-tos."

In this video, we dive deep into understanding these moments not as weakness, but as a powerful, misunderstood message from a part of you trying to be heard. We explore:
β€’ The common cycle of "have-tos" that builds pressure and frustration.
β€’ How urges become a desperate "yes" in a day of "no's," giving a momentary illusion of control.
β€’ The powerful metaphor of your personal desires as a river, constantly constrained and building pressure until it bursts.
β€’ Why simply building more "willpower dams" is an unwinnable battle.
β€’ The "aha!" moment: discovering "micro-choices" – small, daily acts of intentionality that relieve pressure and empower you.
β€’ Tangible strategies to integrate these micro-choices and gently guide your internal river.

Join me in shifting your perspective and transforming how you view your everyday urges from a flaw into an insightful signal for self-discovery and conscious living.

πŸ’‘ Key Takeaways:
1. Your urges often stem from a deep, subconscious need to assert control, not a lack of it.
2. Rigidly suppressing desires (the "concrete channel") only builds pressure, leading to more intense "bursts" or binges.
3. Cultivating "micro-choices" throughout your day offers small, strategic outlets for your will, fostering a sustainable sense of autonomy and well-being.

If this exploration resonates with you, give it a thumbs up and share your thoughts in the comments! What's one tiny, almost insignificant choice you made today that made you feel a little more in control?

πŸ‘‰ Subscribe for more curious explorations into everyday life and personal growth!

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Past Father, Future Child PodcastBy Past Father, Future Child