Hey everyone, Amber here! Ever hear 'It's not you, it's me' and just cringe? Let's flip the script with some real talk on taking responsibility for our own stuff instead of pointing fingers at everyone else. From my own messy journey to Jesus' teachings, we’re diving deep into why it's so hard to say 'It's not you, it's me' and actually mean it. Ready to get real? Let’s break the blame game cycle together. And yep, there's some prayer at the end because we all need it. Follow for more raw and random devo thoughts!

00:00 Introduction: It's Not Me, It's You

00:47 The Blame Game: A Universal Habit

01:25 Biblical Examples of Blame

02:21 Self-Reflection and Personal Responsibility

02:51 Jesus' Teachings on Blame and Sin

03:16 Personal Struggles with Blame

07:32 The Call for Confession and Ownership

08:36 Jesus' Ultimate Sacrifice

09:19 Practical Steps for Self-Examination

11:14 Conclusion and Prayer

Amber Weigand-Buckley is an award-winning author, podcaster as well as editor and art director for Leading Hearts magazine. She is also co-host of Coffee Chat with Amber & Lisa. Be on the lookout for her May 2026 release #sisterhoodoftheshortyellowpencils: Mental Health Mayhem, One Sticky Note at a Time. Follow her @barefacedgirl on socials for more.