Ghosted again? Same. In this episode, your favorite chaotic sibling duo dives into the messiness of modern communication (or lack thereof). We’re talking about ghosting, breadcrumbing, avoiding hard convos, and why “just say how you feel” seems impossible for some. We also get into accountability in dating (yes, even yours 😬), the fine line between honesty and cruelty, and the underrated power of clear, simple communication. It’s raw, it’s funny, it’s painfully relatable. Tune in and let’s unpack the BS together.

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She left Boston for love.

The love didn’t last.

What came after… she’s still figuring out.

This week on It’s Not Me, It’s You, we sit down with Lena the Stitcha... a guest who says less but makes you lean in more. She moved cities, changed chapters, and while she may not have all the answers, her presence says there’s more beneath the surface.

We talk about starting over, the quiet in-between, and what it means to date when you’re still piecing together who you’ve become.

Not everything was said, and maybe that’s the point.

Listen in, lean closer, and see what you pick up.

This one’s exactly what it sounds like... real talk, no filter. We sat down with our homie Louiekillz, an artist and self-declared reformed hoe, and let’s just say… the conversation got wild.

From running the streets and not being ready, to trying to figure out what love even looks like now, we covered it all. It’s giving locker room talk, mixed with just enough honesty to catch you off guard.

It’s messy, it’s funny, and it’s real. Just how we like it.

PSA: This episode is meant to be entertaining and perspective-based. It’s full of jokes, hot takes, and personal experiences, not relationship advice. So take what resonates, leave what doesn’t, and most importantly… enjoy the chaos.

Grab your drink and pull up a seat... it’s another fireside chat with your favorite sibling duo! In this episode, Vanessa (the “seasoned vet”) and Matt (the self-proclaimed “rookie”) go head-to-head on the ever-changing battlefield of love.

We’re talking about dating do’s and don’ts, how intimacy has evolved, and much much more. No scripts. No filters. Just real convos, loud laughs, and sibling chaos as always.

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Welcome to the very first episode of It’s Not Me, It’s You... a love, dating, and relationship podcast hosted by siblings who could not be more different.

She’s the big sister: 11 years older, been in long-term relationships, and seen love from the inside out.

He’s the little brother: never been in love, but got plenty of hot takes and chaotic opinions.

In this episode, we shoot the sh*t on everything from how short is too short for men’s shorts, to body counts, religion and spirituality in relationships, and even how partners feel about masturbation.

No filter, no script , just real conversations from two people trying to make sense of modern love from totally different POVs.

If you’ve ever argued over a 5-inch inseam, wondered how God fits into your sex life, or debated whether “body count” still matters in 2025, this episode is for you.

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