It's Not That Serious

Pack your SPF, your delusion, and a backup credit card — because not everyone’s coming back friends.

In this week’s episode of It’s Not That Serious, Sarah and Frankie break down everything that can go right (and mostly wrong) when you travel with a group. From accidentally becoming the dinner entertainment (and realizing men love a personality with seasoning) — to Frankie’s grand heist getting 8 men into a table like it’s Ocean’s Eight: But Make It Hot & Horny.

They cover:

Why spring and summer belong to the people with jokes, not just jawlines

Club etiquette and why bringing a male plus-one is still a social felony

The emotional stages of a summer situationship breakup (currently: toxic but tan)

And of course, the ultimate Trip Survival Huddle — from roommate roulette, budgeting drama, late Venmos, to who’s not getting invited next time

It’s chaotic. It’s real. It’s giving group chat with an emergency exit plan.

Nobody prepares you for grief—especially when you’re still figuring out how to do your taxes and deciding if you should be drinking oat milk or just accepting lactose intolerance. In this raw, messy, and painfully real episode, Sarah & Frankie get brutally honest about losing a parent in their 20s—the highs, the lows, the absolute crash-outs, and why grief doesn’t look like a Nicholas Sparks movie.

Frankie & Sarah talk about:

The shock of losing a parent while still feeling like a kid yourself.

How grief sneaks up on you at the most random times (like in the checkout line at Trader Joe’s).

The good, the bad, and the unhinged ways we cope (Is excessive online shopping therapy? Asking for a friend.)

Why are we glad we’re dealing with it now rather than later—but also, WTF?!

How people treat you differently after you lose a parent—the awkwardness, the weird pity, and the well-meaning but terrible things people say.

Can you really "heal" from grief, or do you just get used to the pain?

Whether you’ve lost a parent, are terrified of losing one, or just want to hear Frankie & Sarah spiral in real-time, this episode is a deep dive into grief, but with a little humor, a lot of honesty, and zero toxic positivity.

We talk about romantic breakups all the time—but what about friendship breakups? The ones that leave you spiraling, questioning your entire personality, and re-reading old texts like a detective? This week, Sarah & Frankie dive into the messy reality of friendships after 25—the slow fades, the sudden betrayals, and the awkward ‘we’re basically just mutuals now’ phase.

But first—Frankie has discovered a new kink: getting kidnapped (not literally—calm down). He and Sarah keep finding themselves abducted by strangers and thrown into wild nights they never planned for.

Then, we get into the real stuff:

• Why friendship breakups hurt more than romantic ones

• How to tell if a friendship is fading or just evolving

• When to fight for it vs. let it go

• The one friend breakup we’ll never get over

• And why making new friends after 25 feels like applying for a job

Grab your emotional baggage and let's talk about it!

Guess who decided to finally clock back in? After ghosting the podcast since December (ooops), Sarah & Frankie are back with massive updates, unfiltered chaos, and the same questionable decision-making skills.

Sarah turned 25, and let’s just say the birthday was so wild that she and Frankie have yet to return to the scene of the crime. Was there a health code violation? Did they actually end up working in the kitchen? Will the Better Business Bureau be in touch? All alleged.

Meanwhile, Frankie has been spilling everyone else’s tea on TMZ Live, proving he has range - from reality tv scandals to launching his own sex toy line (yes, you heard that right). They also get real about the quarter-life crisis, feeling chronically behind, and why social media is making it worse.

Plus, 2025 is officially starting now, because January was a trial period. The Plan? Less people- pleasing, more boundaries, and embracing their villain era. They’re even doing a people-please challenge where they say NO for a full week- what could possibly go wrong?

Messy? Always. Entertaining? Absolutely.

Back for good? TBD

It’s the season of giving… and Frankie’s giving naughty list energy. After being crowned “Most Likely to Be Naughty” at a holiday party, Frankie and Sarah unpack all the holiday chaos. From shocking Grindr reveals (the face behind that blank profile will leave you shook) to why everyone seems to be hooking up this time of year, they’ve got the seasonal tea.

Plus, Frankie’s aura is setting off too much sexual energy, Sarah’s has men spinning the block, and they’re sharing the ultimate tips for gifting gifts and surviving “meet the parents” moments. Grab a glass of eggnog—this one’s stuffed with drama, laughs, and maybe a little coal.

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Live from their favorite late-night pizza spot, Big Tony’s, Sarah and Frankie are joined by their friend Kaitlin McDonald for the ultimate girl dinner. In this hilarious and no-holds-barred episode, the trio tackles the infamous Facebook group Are We Dating the Same Guy/Girl, shares spicy takes on cheating, and debates whether they’d snitch on a friend’s partner—or expect their friends to do the same for them. They also dive deep into whether your man should come "pre-assembled" or if a little fine-tuning is fair game, and share their ultimate dating icks. Plus, Kaitlin’s love affair with love bombing, Frankie’s dramatic cold-ending fling, and Sarah’s jaw-dropping nanny decoy story will leave you screaming. Grab a slice and tune in for the tea, the laughs, and all the late-night chaos. It’s a pizza party you don’t want to miss!

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After surviving two wild weeks of Halloween shenanigans, Sarah and Frankie are back—and they have stories. Sarah’s Halloween rager led to a near-death experience involving her weave and a twisted ankle, though the details behind her mysterious third injury will remain a spooky secret. Frankie, meanwhile, had an eye-opening revelation at Sarah’s party that's inspired a whole new dating approach for 2025.

In this episode, they break down the best and worst costumes they saw (and wore), tackle the pros and cons of couples costumes (Frankie argues one partner’s always a hostage), and dive into the art of "soft launching" vs. "hard launching" relationships on social media. Joined by their friend Terence, they debate the real MVP of meeting the inner circle: is it tougher for the guys or the girls? Grab your leftover candy, settle in, and get ready for a post-Halloween recap that’s as funny as it is revealing.

Frankie and Sarah return from a two-week hiatus after a wild weekend bender that had Sarah on the verge of calling it quits. Back in the studio, Frankie spills about a guy asking him out on a Monday—his least favorite date night ("Mondays are like the nosebleeds of dates"). This leads to a hilariously candid chat on the hierarchy of date nights. The duo also dishes on the wildest dinner they've ever had, involving a womanizer making moves on everyone at the table—even with his girlfriend right there! Cue a deep dive into the messy world of open relationships and if either host could handle one. Plus, Sarah drops a bombshell about her ex’s craziest breakup move, and Frankie reveals a shocking secret he discovered just as his relationship was ending. Buckle up—this episode is packed with laughs, drama, and a few jaw-dropping revelations

In this laugh-out-loud episode, Sarah and Frankie are back with more wild stories and awkward moments! A listener shares their embarrassing DM disaster—sending an NSFW pic to the wrong person—while Sarah relives the cringe-worthy moment of meeting her celebrity idol... and forgetting who he was! Frankie spills behind-the-scenes tea from his days as a celebrity assistant, revealing the surprisingly sweet rapper who shocked him (spoiler: it's 50 Cent!) and a Grammy-winning actress who wasn’t quite as pleasant. They also break down the dos and don’ts of exes asking for gifts back, and discuss just how much you should lie to impress a date before it all blows up. Tune in for laughs, lessons, and a reminder that it’s really not that serious!

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This week on It's Not That Serious, Sarah kicks things off with a story straight out of a sitcom—she thought she was having dinner with her boss, but surprise! A complete stranger showed up instead. Cue the lesson: save numbers and never trust your memory. Meanwhile, Frankie just got back from Boston, where he faced the joys (and surprises) of dating an older man. The duo also dives into the world of Love Is Blind DC, dissecting the dating culture in the nation’s capital and, for some reason, football?! Frankie knows nothing about it except that "men like it," which leads to a hilarious breakdown of fall dating, cuffing season, and Frankie confessing that he follows a girl who’s been engaged—wait for it—eight times! Grab your headphones for a wild ride of laughs, love, and WTF moments!

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