If there's one thing that people like to do, it's put everyone in neat little boxes and say, "This is your box. Don't you dare get out." However, we've learned that God loves to break the mold with His creation.  Whether you do or don't fit the stereotypical definition of a man, you're not better than those who don't or worse than those who do. All that matters is finding out who God told you to be. As Mark Twain said, "The two most important days in your life are the day you are born and the day you find out why."