Tania talks to James; a guy she went to high school with and hasn't spoken to in 36 years. They talk about what it was like for him to be one of a few Black students in an all White school and Tania gains perspective she always wanted and still more questions.

The chance for Tania and future guests to have a do-over and revisit conversations, interactions and relationships they wish they had handled differently will be a recurring segment called "shoulda coulda woulda". Sometimes going back is necessary to move forward.

If you have a "shoulda coulda woulda" share it on the Tania's Take FB page or private message her and you can be on the show!