Riding shotgun has its pros and cons, but it becomes a messy situation when you have to choose who gets to sit in the front between your mother and your spouse. While it may be a no-brainer on our end, it doesn't seem the case for one KZN woman. She sent Jane Linley-Thomas this voice note to tell her how she felt she didn't need to leave her front seat spot to give way to her mother-in-law to be, and how her boyfriend was upset with her for not giving her seat up. The spouse or the mother - Who gets the front seat? · Jane's page on ECR