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January 16: What if you're accidentally filtering for the wrong people?

Welcome to Curiouser + Curiouser, the daily podcast where love, sex, romance, and kink get real.I’m Heather aka Nookie—author, educator, relationship coach, and professional truth-teller. Every day, I send a message to my community: part story, part confession, part “holy hell, that’s exactly what I needed to hear today.” Now, I’m bringing those daily messages to your ears.Each episode is 3–10 minutes long—short enough for your morning coffee, deep enough to shift how you think about connection. I talk about the conversations I’ve had, the questions people ask, the mistakes we all make, and the delicious, messy, joyful work of being human together, plus I keep you updated on new education, books, and more. You’ll hear about dating disasters, kink revelations, emotional growth, and the kind of vulnerability that makes relationships actually work. Sometimes it’s tender. Sometimes it’s filthy. Often, it’s funny. Always, it’s real.If you’re curious about love that feels alive—and life that feels like love—this is your daily dose.Love smarter. F*ck better. Stay curiouser—daily.

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Welcome to Curiouser + Curiouser, the daily podcast where love, sex, romance, and kink get real. I’m Heather aka Nookie—author, educator, relationship coach, and professional truth-teller. Every day, I send a message to my community: part story, part confession, part “holy hell, that’s exactly what I needed to hear today.” Now, I’m bringing those daily messages to your ears. Each episode is 3–10 minutes long—short enough for your morning coffee, deep enough to shift how you think about connection. I talk about the conversations I’ve had, the questions people ask, the mistakes we all make, and the delicious, messy, joyful work of being human together, plus I keep you updated on new education, books, and more. You’ll hear about dating disasters, kink revelations, emotional growth, and the kind of vulnerability that makes relationships actually work. Sometimes it’s tender. Sometimes it’s filthy. Often, it’s funny. Always, it’s real. If you’re curious about love that feels alive—and life that feels like love—this is your daily dose. Love smarter. F*ck better. Stay curiouser—daily.

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January 16: What if you're accidentally filtering for the wrong people?

January 16: What if you're accidentally filtering for the wrong people?