In marriage, everything you do and everything you are affects the energy between you & your partner. It deeply matters what you say, what you do and how you think about this other person­—it matters how you think about yourself. All of it good and bad shapes the flow between you. To keep this energy full of life & vitality, you intentionally act for their well-being. This responsive movement is the foundation to your relationship. You’re looking out for their best, while they’re looking out for yours.