When Jay and his wife riding their horses, got to a narrow bridge and his horse won't move, Linda wasn't quite that patient as the horse began to back up on this narrow path, at this moment Jay had to stop and really think about how scared the horse was. Flashback to himself as a child, when he was scared as a kid, sometimes he didn't always get support. So, he wanted to show his horse patience as they slowly moved across, because they believed in each other, which is what patience is all about.