"I've got to take responsibility for the part I control"

Anyone can diagnose the obvious. Life is not that black and white. We are complex. Life is complex. We would all be better served being empathetic not because it makes you a benevolent human but because nuance is a difficult input for which to account.

Jenny's book and her experiences bring value to those of us working at this thing we call Life. So keep working at it and involve people in this process— each in their proper role.