Hi, there, it’s me again—Jo Giese—author of Never Sit If You Can Dance

Here’s a important ritual I observe as a writer. When I’m at my desk the first thing I do is a light a candle.

The candle is always in view, and its flame signifies to me that what I’m doing is important—it means during this time that I’m at my desk I’m supposed to be paying attention—and it also means, don’t dink around.

Lately, when my husband and I have been sitting down to dinner, I take a moment to light the candles on our table. This gesture symbolizes that there may only be the two of us here, and we’re still sheltering at home, but the comfort of this meal we’re sharing is precious and important.

What ritual helps you make it through the day?

For a entertaining read, try my book Never Sit If You Can Dance.