The IRSPNSBL crew dig deep in our intellectual bags on this one.  Bettina speaks her mind on normalizing the mature woman body, stomach brains and all....LOL!!  The crew then discuss where we gain our confidence from and how society affects the confidence of men and women differently.  Colorism amongst different cultures and intercultural dating become a topic of exploration.  Mavriq exits with an insightful ted talk about buying black and how irresponsible it is as an exclusive practice.