This episode dives into grief, purpose, and the incredible resilience of a father who turned heartbreak into hope. Barry Adkins-author of Kevin’s Last Walk: A Father’s Final Journey with His Son-shares the story of losing his 18-year-old son Kevin to alcohol poisoning, the 1,400-mile walk he made carrying Kevin’s ashes, and how he found healing by helping others.

Here’s a sneak peek into what we discussed:

Key Takeaways:

Kevin’s Story:

1. How a high school graduation turned into tragedy just weeks later.
2. The dangers of binge drinking and the night that changed everything.

A Father’s Final Walk:

1. Why Barry chose to carry Kevin’s ashes 1,400 miles from Arizona to Montana.
2. Lessons from the road, and how the journey became a platform to share Kevin’s story.

Turning Grief Into Purpose:

1. The message Barry received in the middle of the night that gave him hope.
2. Why he refuses to be a victim and instead uses his pain to protect others.

Speaking to Students & Communities:

1. How his story has opened conversations about alcohol, drugs, and decision-making.
2. Real-life moments when teens changed their choices after hearing Kevin’s story.

Faith, Family & Resilience:

1. How Barry’s marriage and family endured after loss.
2. The role faith and quiet reflection played in his healing.

Why You Should Listen:

1. Awareness: Learn the real risks of alcohol abuse for young people.
2. Hope: See how one father turned unimaginable pain into a mission.
3. Inspiration: A powerful reminder that adversity doesn’t have to define you.
4. Legacy: Discover how Kevin’s story is saving lives across the country.

Join us for a heartfelt and inspiring conversation that will challenge you to reflect on your own decisions, cherish your loved ones, and find purpose even in the hardest seasons of life.

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This episode dives deep into resilience, fatherhood, and the power of discipline to transform every area of life. Javier Montes-entrepreneur, husband, father of three, and Brotherhood member-opens up about hitting rock bottom, rebuilding himself, and creating a life of purpose.

Here’s a sneak peek into what we discussed:

Key Takeaways:

From Childhood Hustler to CEO:

1. How Javier’s entrepreneurial journey began at age 12, turning bikes and cans into his first profits.
2. Building a million-dollar entertainment company from what started as a “small DJ hobby.”

Rock Bottom & Wake-Up Call:

1. The Bell’s Palsy diagnosis that forced him to confront stress, poor health, and disconnection from family.
2. The breaking point moment with his daughters that made him realize something had to change-immediately.

The Power of Discipline:

1. How running “just one more house” led him from being unable to finish a mile to completing a full marathon.
2. Why discipline is the hidden muscle that transforms not just health, but finances, relationships, and mindset.

Fatherhood & Homeschooling:

1. Why he chose to homeschool his three daughters-and the surprising advantages it created.
2. Teaching kids real-life skills like finance, public speaking, and confidence through everyday life.

Unstoppable 31 & Brotherhood Lessons:

1. How his personal journey led to creating Unstoppable 31-a 31-day program helping men master mindset, health, wealth, and relationships.
2. Insights from climbing 20,000 ft. in Bolivia with The Brotherhood, and what it taught him about perseverance and leadership.

Why You Should Listen:

1. Transformation: Javier’s story is proof that even rock bottom can be the foundation for an unstoppable life.
2. Practical Lessons: From entrepreneurship to parenting, he shares tools you can apply immediately.
3. Inspiration: Learn how small, consistent steps can lead to massive breakthroughs.
4. Family & Fulfillment: Discover how prioritizing health, relationships, and discipline creates lasting success.

Join us for a raw and motivating conversation that will challenge you to take ownership of your life, lead your family with purpose, and build the discipline to become truly unstoppable.

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This episode dives into men’s health, vitality, and what it really takes to stay strong as we age. Dr. Halim Mohammed-MD, MBA, former stockbroker, and now Chief Medical Officer of Game Day Men’s Health-shares his personal transformation, the science behind hormones, and how men can reclaim their energy, performance, and purpose.

Here’s a sneak peek into what we discussed:

Key Takeaways:

From Wall Street to Medicine:

• How Dr. Mohammed went from finance to becoming a board-certified physician.
• The turning point that made him focus on men’s health and open multiple clinics.

Personal Transformation:

• How he dropped 70 pounds, reversed hypertension, and rebuilt his life.
• The role his wife and new son played in fueling his commitment to health.

The Testosterone Crisis:

• Why modern men’s testosterone levels are 20–30% lower than past generations.
• The hidden lifestyle factors-stress, diet, plastics, and obesity-that crush male hormones.

Solutions for Men:

• How peptides, hormone therapy, and shockwave treatments help men recover faster.
• Simple functional exercises and sleep habits that every man should adopt.
• Why weight loss, stress reduction, and discipline are the foundation before any therapy.

Fatherhood & Purpose:

• How becoming a father reshaped his priorities and daily discipline.
• The importance of showing up healthy and strong for your wife, kids, and business.

Why You Should Listen:

• Clarity: Learn the real science behind men’s health, energy, and hormones.
• Solutions: Practical tools to fight fatigue, low motivation, and aging.
• Inspiration: Dr. Mohammed’s personal story proves it’s never too late to transform.
• Brotherhood: A reminder that when men perform better, families and society thrive.

Join us for an eye-opening and empowering conversation that will challenge you to take ownership of your health, break the cycle of fatigue, and step into your full strength as a man.

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This episode dives into transformation, resilience, and the power of turning life’s struggles into strength. Guy Shashaty-entrepreneur, husband, father, and Brotherhood member-opens up about his personal battles, the choices that nearly broke him, and how discipline, faith, and purpose rebuilt his life.

Here’s a sneak peek into what we discussed:

Key Takeaways:

Hitting Rock Bottom:

• The personal challenges that forced Guy to confront the man in the mirror.
• Why struggle can become the catalyst for growth if you let it.

Discipline & Brotherhood:

• How surrounding yourself with strong men changes everything.
• The habits and mindset shifts that helped Guy stay accountable.

Faith & Family:

• The role of faith in finding clarity and strength.
• Why showing up for your wife and kids starts with showing up for yourself.

From Pain to Power:

• How Guy turned setbacks into lessons that fueled his purpose.
• Why resilience is the most important skill a man can build.

Why You Should Listen:

• Relatability: Guy’s story proves that no matter where you are, you can turn it around.
• Practical Lessons: Learn the daily disciplines that lead to lasting change.
• Inspiration: A raw and real conversation that will push you to rise above your struggles.
• Brotherhood: A reminder that men are stronger when they grow together.

Join us for this powerful conversation with Guy Shashaty-one that will challenge you to face your struggles head-on, embrace discipline, and turn your pain into purpose.

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This episode is filled with powerful insights on entrepreneurship, brand building, and the discipline it takes to succeed-personally and professionally. Here’s a sneak peek into what we discussed:

Key Takeaways:

From $100 to a Global Brand:

Eric Malka’s incredible journey from arriving in New York as an undocumented immigrant to building The Art of Shaving and selling it to Procter & Gamble.

How he bootstrapped the first store with just $12,000 and turned it into a multi-million dollar company.

Execution Over Ideas:

Why Eric believes great execution, not just passion or ideas, is what builds legendary businesses.

The importance of entering saturated markets with better execution, not just novelty.

Post-Exit Life & Fulfillment:

What it felt like to wake up after selling his business-without direction.

How he realigned his priorities around family, health, and investing in others.

Coaching & Strategic Investment:

Eric’s current mission: investing in and advising early-stage brands in wellness, grooming, and beauty.

Common pitfalls founders face-like scaling too fast, poor financial discipline, and chasing top-line growth.

Entrepreneurship & Mental Health:

Why financials are your “binoculars” in business-and avoiding them only increases anxiety.

How health, mindset, and consistency play a massive role in entrepreneurial success.

Vulnerability & Fear:

A near-death experience on a boat with the host reveals Eric’s calm-under-pressure nature.

Why fear isn’t the problem-it’s what you do with it that matters.

Why You Should Listen:

Inspiration: Eric’s story is a modern-day rags-to-riches tale with valuable lessons at every turn.
Wisdom: Learn how to scale responsibly, manage crisis, and build lasting success.
Clarity: Discover the importance of simplicity, financial focus, and long-term consistency.
Balance: Gain insight into how health and personal growth fuel sustainable entrepreneurship.

Join us for an honest, impactful conversation filled with actionable advice for any entrepreneur, investor, or leader looking to elevate their game-without losing their soul. You don’t want to miss this one!

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Success Isn’t the Goal - It’s Just the Beginning | Santos Caban

In this powerful episode, we sit down with Santos Caban - Division I All-American wrestler, Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu black belt, father, coach, and owner of a thriving martial arts academy - to explore what really happens after you “make it.” From early struggles and career pivots to building a values-driven business and leading as a father, Santos shares what it means to evolve as a man, mentor, and leader.

This isn’t just about martial arts. It’s about growth, discipline, parenting, self-defense, resilience, and what it takes to live in alignment once the hustle fades.

What You'll Learn in This Episode:

• How Santos went from corporate burnout to building a thriving martial arts academy
• The emotional challenges of coaching your own children
• Why self-defense and situational awareness are non-negotiable life skills
• The mindset shift that helped him become a more present father and balanced leader
• How he empowers women in martial arts through culture and consistency
• The business lessons behind building long-term community and retention
• Why functional fitness and injury prevention are essential for longevity
• The value of real mentorship, continuous learning, and emotional intelligence

Whether you're a parent, martial artist, coach, or entrepreneur, Santos’s story is packed with wisdom on how to grow from achievement into alignment - and from hustle into purpose.

If you’ve ever asked yourself, “What’s next?” after success - this episode is for you.

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🎙️ Newsletter: Dive into Rich Walker's Entrepreneurial Journey!

Hey there, amazing listeners!

I'm thrilled to share the latest episode of our podcast, where I had the pleasure of chatting with the incredible Rich Walker. Rich's story is a testament to resilience, family support, and the power of perseverance. Here are some of the key takeaways and intriguing moments from our conversation that you won't want to miss:

🚀 Key Lessons & Ideas:
Early Entrepreneurial Spirit: Rich started his entrepreneurial journey at just 12 years old, driven by a desire to buy a $300 radio-controlled car. His first venture? Selling homemade squirt guns, which earned him over $1,100 in a single day!
Family Resilience: Despite his father's struggles with addiction, Rich's mother showed immense resilience, running an illegal daycare to support the family. Her strength and determination were pivotal in shaping Rich's work ethic.
Founding Efficient Technology Inc.: In 1999, Rich and his mother founded their company, focusing on consulting and software training. Their big break came with MassMutual, leading to significant growth in the financial services sector.
Perseverance Pays Off: Rich's journey wasn't without challenges. From lengthy sales cycles to financial struggles, he emphasizes that persistence and a customer-centric approach were key to their success.
Innovative Sales Strategies: Handwritten letters to potential clients and attending conferences were some of the unique strategies that helped them secure contracts and grow their business.
Recurring Revenue Model: Rich likens their business model to an annuity stream, emphasizing the importance of continuous innovation and excellent customer support to retain clients.
Bootstrapping Success: By avoiding outside funding, Rich maintained control over his vision and direction, making their success even more meaningful.
Multigenerational Vision: Rich aspires to build a company that can thrive for generations, providing opportunities for his children and the children of his team members.

🌟 Curiosities & Personal Insights:
Passion for Cars: Rich's love for cars is evident, with a unique piece of metal artwork of his Volvo XC90 illuminated with LED lights. His dream car? An Aston Martin Vantage!
Personal Growth: Rich's journey of self-awareness and personal development, influenced by books like "Codependent No More," has been crucial in shaping his leadership style.
Family Dynamics: The strong bond and mutual respect between Rich and his mother have been instrumental in their business success. Their clear division of roles has allowed them to work effectively together.
Future Aspirations: Rich is excited about the potential for significant growth and is considering forming a board of directors to guide the company’s future.

Rich's story is not just about building a successful business; it's about creating a lasting impact and fostering a supportive environment. His journey is an inspiration for aspiring entrepreneurs and anyone looking to overcome challenges in their own lives.

Tune in to this episode to hear Rich's full story and gain valuable insights into the world of entrepreneurship. Trust me, you won't want to miss it!

🎧 Listen to the Episode Now

Stay curious and keep striving for greatness!

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If you’ve ever wondered, “What the heck do women want?” - this episode is for you.
Relationship expert Sasha Fedorovsky, founder of the Mind Heart Method, joins me for a powerful and eye-opening conversation about the truth behind modern relationships, emotional intelligence, and how men can lead in love and life.

🔥 In this episode, we explore:

• Why men thrive at work but fail at home
• The emotional muscle every man needs to develop
• How to lead your wife without sounding like it’s the 1950s
• Why traditional couples therapy often doesn’t work
• How to reduce stress, reclaim confidence, and save your marriage - in 90 days or less.
• The biology behind attraction and how to spark it again
• The truth about “nice guy syndrome” and how to stop being a wife-pleaser
• How men can be emotionally safe leaders without becoming soft or passive

Sasha has worked with CEOs, high-performers, and husbands who were on the brink of divorce… and helped them completely transform their marriages. This isn’t fluff — it’s a tactical deep dive into what it means to be a masculine, emotionally intelligent, and relationship-ready man today.

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In this powerful and inspiring episode, we sit down with Adrian Alsina — BJJ black belt, academy owner, and former #6 ranked brown belt in the world — to talk about his incredible journey from Cuba to the U.S. and how Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu changed his life.

Discover how Adrian went from a taekwondo-loving teen in Mexico to owning one of the most successful Jiu-Jitsu academies in South Florida with over 330 students. We dive deep into his immigration story, his struggles with identity, how he built unshakable discipline, and why BJJ is one of the best tools for building confidence in both kids and adults.

Whether you’re a martial artist, a business owner, a parent, or just someone who loves an underdog success story — you’ll want to hear this one.

 What You’ll Learn:

• How martial arts builds mental and physical strength
• Why kids should train Jiu-Jitsu for confidence and anti-bullying
• The realities of running a successful Jiu-Jitsu academy
• Immigrant grit, cultural identity, and chasing the American Dream
• Training tips, mindset shifts, and what keeps top athletes going

Drop a comment if you’ve ever been humbled on the mats — or inspired by a coach who changed your life. Don’t forget to LIKE, SUBSCRIBE, and hit the  bell icon for more real conversations with leaders, athletes, and changemakers.

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In this powerful episode, we sit down with Gonzalo Fernandez – entrepreneur, father, husband, and self-made marina magnate – as he shares his extraordinary story of transformation. From immigrating to the U.S. with $600 and no English skills to building the largest marina operation in the Miami River, Gonzalo reveals the mindset, hustle, and heart behind his success.

🔥 What You'll Learn in This Episode:

• How Gonzalo started cleaning boats and grew into owning marinas, a maintenance company, and a yacht brokerage
• The power of belief, hustle, and taking bold risks (even with no money)
• The mindset shift that turned struggle into opportunity during the COVID-19 boom in Miami
• Why building a strong team and empowering them is key to business freedom
• Gonzalo’s deep spiritual journey through coaching, meditation, and ayahuasca ceremonies
• What it truly means to be a present and intentional father and husband
• His work with Navy SEAL organizations and giving back through the SEAL Kids Foundation

🌱 Gonzalo’s story is packed with wisdom for aspiring entrepreneurs, immigrant dreamers, spiritual seekers, and parents balancing business and family life.

💥 Whether you’re building a business from scratch, looking for purpose, or needing motivation to take the next leap—this episode will move and inspire you.

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