Author John Marrs on life as a gay dad via surrogacy and his new book The Marriage Act. John, Lotte and Stu chat about being a queer family in the countryside, and finding your LGBTQ+ identity. We also hear John’s hot take on the story that scientists have created an embryo from two male mice; science gone mad, or the next step in queer parenting? Elsewhere, Stu is giving up caffeine, and our latest ‘A problem shared’ deals with parent labels at school.