We had a huge fight over a fun activity that Alexis was trying to plan. In this episode we talked about our most recent fight and how we usually find our way back to baseline after arguments.

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In this episode, we talked about surviving as a couple in extreme situations. Working out as a way to stay attractive to your spouse and where Augustus allegience lies in stressful times.

We talked about emotional affairs vs physical affairs, hosting our first house party, and how Alexis failed her first driving test.

Is this a typical behavior for Nigerian men, or is my husband just different? We've been together for 6 years, and he still doesn't celebrate Valentine's Day.

You deserve to treat yourself to nice things every day, not just on special days or occasions. In this episode, we talked about our experience treating ourselves to a spa day and how worried we are about raising kids in this internet era.

We've been married for over four (4) years, but we've known each other for way longer. This episode is about our love story. How we met, dating, proposing, and getting married.

What is the barest minimum in relationships? In this episode, we talked about expectations for men/women when dating. We also discussed our most recent experience of hosting the family, and Alexis did not hold back from expressing her frustration with nail salons.

From Alexis thanking God that she did not test positive for STD, to talking about the fear of starting a family and becoming a parent, this episode is a little bit chaotic, as we wrap up the episode with why friendship with the opposite gender never works.

Is checking your partner’s phone a red flag… or just due diligence?

When we first started dating, Augustus checked Alexis’s phone and didn’t see it as a privacy violation — to him, it was a necessary background check. Alexis strongly disagreed.

In this episode, we unpack phone privacy, trust, cultural expectations, and where boundaries should exist in relationships.

This isn’t about right vs wrong, it’s about perspective.

Do you believe couples should have phone privacy, or full transparency?

Should spouses rely on each other for simple, basic things, or should they be able to handle themself? A conversation about independence, expectations in relationships.