No Shame in Our Game

Joy Circles + Joyful Support Steps: A Simple Tool for Practical Support


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Heads up: Joyful Support Movement is now Practical Hug (aka the Practical Hug Network for our podcasts).

In this episode, we share one of our favorite tools: Joyful Support Steps. It’s a simple way to offer support that’s honest, human, and actually helpful.

Sara shares what it was like to host their first in-person Joy Circle, and we walk through the three parts of the tool:

  1. Story: what’s real right now
  2. Joy: what’s helping you breathe a little easier
  3. Step: one small next action that feels doable

If you’re tired of “good vibes only,” allergic to perfection culture, or you want support that doesn’t turn you into a project, you’re in the right place.

In This Episode
  1. The rebrand: why Practical Hug (and what’s staying the same)
  2. Joyful Support Steps (Story / Joy / Step), and why it’s a tool you can use anywhere
  3. Sara’s first in-person Joy Circle: what surprised them, and what participants asked for
  4. The origin story of the tool (including the first time Sara used it with Lacey)
  5. Holding space for hard things without toxic positivity (or chronic complaining)
  6. Why this isn’t “self-help that fixes your life,” and what we actually mean by support
  7. The bigger vision for Joy Circles (decentralized, community-based, and meant to spread)

Timestamps (approx.)

0:00 — Welcome + rebrand announcement

2:00 — Sara’s first in-person Joy Circle (10 total, hosted at Petal and Hive)

3:20 — Joyful Support Steps: Story / Joy / Step

6:40 — Using the tool in parenting + “we’re not experts” disclaimer

7:50 — Sara runs the steps on the Joy Circle (Story / Joy / Step)

10:00 — Why Joy Circles are decentralized (AA inspiration) + accessibility + future direction

12:00 — How the tool can spread (solo, with a friend, in circles, facilitators)

13:00 — The first time Sara used the steps with Lacey (Indy)

16:00 — Toxic positivity, chronic complaining, and why “joy is always there”

19:45 — Gratitude (hair + sunshine)

Mentioned in This Episode
  1. Petal and Hive — all-natural beauty products (venue for Joy Circle)
  2. Britt Frank — researcher and writer who talks about “micro yeses”

Upcoming Joy Circle Events
  1. Last Wednesday of February (Saratoga Springs / Albany Capital Region)
  2. Morning Joy Circle at a woman-owned coffee shop (details coming soon)

Connect with Joyful Support Movement:
  1. Visit our website to learn more about our community and resources
  2. Join the Joyful Support Village for peer-to-peer support
  3. Subscribe to The Practical Hug newsletter for weekly support in your inbox
  4. Submit a Joy Moment, No Shame Question, or guest idea
  5. Follow us on Instagram: @joyfulsupportmovement
  6. Follow us on TikTok: @joyfulsupportmovement
  7. Review and rate this podcast to help others find us
  8. Share this episode with someone who needs to hear it


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No Shame in Our GameBy Joyful Support Movement