As the holidays approach couples are making plans. Will it be the same old same old obligatory visits, parties travel etc.? Zev and Sarah dig deep into this traditional couples conflict and holiday blues. Suggestions for breaking the patterns of same old are offered which can strengthen relationship intimacy bonds. The development of ways to carve out relationship time and the development of "together time rituals' which add spice and a holiday dose of happiness are encouraged. The holidays can be happier a time for your relationship, it just takes some fresh ingredients to create a joyful intimate holiday mix. Happy Holidays you 2!