* Here are five characteristics of someone who will lose at everything in life:

* 1) Grumble - he complains about everything, typically in his mind or under his breath.

* 2) Blame shift - he refuses to take responsibility for his own actions.

* 3) Selfish - his first thought is of himself and what he wants.

* 4) Brag - because he’s selfish he tells others about his ossumness - he can’t stop talking about himself.

* 5) Manipulate - the only time he does say nice things about others is to get something he wants.