Following on from the last episode on choosing what you want, we look further at the distinction of judgement - of ourselves and of others. 


In this episode we cover:

The importance to practice and play with all these distinctions.
Judgement is repulsive and the biggest roadblock to change.
Understanding that we cannot feel judged until we first judge ourselves.
Deleting more from your vocabulary.
Judgement limits your creativity and ability to be open and curious.
The freedom that comes when you accept you are judgmental and know it is not right or wrong.
The judgements about our judgements is the issue.
Whatever we say to ourselves, know it is constantly being repeated internally.

 
Thrival Tips for you Thrival Kits:

Reviewing everything this week through the distinction of judgement.
See how judgement is impacting your days.
Accept that you will always judge.
Let it come and let it go.
Notice how you feel when you choose to let go of judging yourself.

 
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Judgement - Yours And Others | #14

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Why are we always in process? Because we choose to be. Living and being is a process, not an outcome and it involves doing the work and overcoming obstacles but we get better at it over time.
In this episode we cover:

What occurs when you choose to be in process and choose this as the foundation for life.
Why "Im not good enough" is the source code that needs to be changed.
What drives our need to be "done"?
The goal of the new paradigm.
How to enjoy the process of creating who we're being

#Thrival Tips for your Thrival Kits:  


 •When the "not good enough" shows up, just remember - it's a feeling. Breathe and respond from love.

 •Accept that you're always in process and that's okay.

 •Be here now because there's only one moment. That's a gift. You can choose to be or not to be in process, and love and enjoy it.

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It's Never Done, It's Simply In Process | #30

We all experience drama in our lives. In fact, we are very good at creating drama and being highly dramatic over the smallest things. It can be very frustrating especially when we don't know we're there. So, how do you know you're stuck in the drama?
In this episode we cover:

Suzy's personal experience with this distinction and the steps she took to get out of it.
How drama affects your life and takes you away from the things you need to focus on.
Recognising the drama by being aware of the 3 key elements of the old paradigm.
How this distinction relates to previous ones we've discussed, especially the distinction of "I'm not good enough".  
Identifying the source of the drama and getting through it.

#Thrival Tips for your Thrival Kits:  

Practice asking yourself often, "Where am I coming from - fear or love?" Then choose.
Fear is insidious. It runs the world. So chances are, you are in fear whenever you ask if you are in fear.  So, let go and choose.
You are the one that's causing everything that's occurring. You are causing it all with loving intention.

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How Do You Know You're Stuck In The Drama | #29

It can be very frustrating when things don't go your way despite all the changes you make. But nothing will change no matter how many times you seem to change it if you don't tell the whole truth.
In this episode we cover:

Why this distinction is the ultimate responsibility that requires massive honesty.
How this relates to the distinction of "I get to choose and create the whole of my reality".
Lorna's experience of this distinction, how she overcame it and how she is dealing with it now.
Being in charge of the distinction rather than getting rid of it.
How the distinction applies to running your business.

#Thrival Tips for your Thrival Kits:  

If you want something to change, tell the truth and keep telling the truth until it does.
You will recognize you've told the whole truth when the energy shifts, and it will when you tell the whole truth.
Be patient and gentle with yourself. It's not a race. Be here now and just tell the truth.

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Producer: Nicole Hatherly
Sound and Publishing: Lyndal Harris, Podcast VA
Studio: RadioHub

If Something Doesn't Change, The Truth Hasn't Been Told | #28

Being misunderstood or not understanding something can cause us frustration, but asking one this simple question can change everything: "What do you mean by that?"
In this episode we cover:

The challenges that changing communication channels bring.
How and why it is important to be responsible in our communication.
The reason why communication doesn't work when something isn't being said.
The risks of reading between the lines.
The use of miscommunication as a reason for not being clear enough.
Why being misunderstood is a myth.

#Thrival Tips for your Thrival Kits:  

When you don't get the response you want or expect, ask yourself what you didn't say. Take responsibility and then communicate it.
Whenever you find yourself reacting to a communication, 1) ask "what did you mean by that?" or 2) feedback what you thought it meant by saying "did you mean this?" and then respond.
Being explicit in all your communication is a choice. It saves time, energy and makes life simple.

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Studio: RadioHub

What Do You Mean By That | #27

Indecision may be uncomfortable or painful, especially when faced with making big or even small decisions, but it's part of the process that serves an important purpose. In this episode, we distill the purpose of indecision.
In this episode we cover:

The outcomes we can expect from the space of 'not knowing yet'.
The critical role that indecision plays in creating our reality.
2 scenarios of indecision in your life.
How 'not knowing something' can make a difference to the decision making process.
How making mistakes help us learn, grow and find our unshakeable truth.

#Thrival Tips for your Thrival Kits:  

Accept that indecision is part of your process and let go of self-judgment when you don't know. Just be willing to sit in the discomfort of indecision and it will shift.
When you don't know what to choose or if you feel stuck, ask yourself: is it simply fear of choosing what you know you want, or is it that you actually need more information?
Confusion and indecision are simply showing you there's something you do not know and that when you do know it, it will change everything.

Subscribe to The Change Room Podcast here.
Continue the conversation in Facebook - The Change Room Podcast Group.
Links mentioned in the show:
Connect with Suzy Jacobs here.
Get the latest on The Change Room delivered to your inbox here.
The Change Room is powered by Finesque and designed by Bench Creative.
Host: Suzy Jacobs
Regular Special Guest: Lorna Patten
Producer: Nicole Hatherly
Sound and Publishing: Lyndal Harris, Podcast VA
Studio: RadioHub

Judgement - Yours And Others | #14

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