Do you ever just get that feeling you don't belong? Marissa opens up about some of the deeper insecurities she's been facing lately – from imposter syndrome at work to confronting her savage inner critic. Hanli explores what it means to truly let yourself go and express yourself without judgement, even if it's a bit cringe.

We're tired of adulthood so we had ourselves a pyjama party. This week, Hanli gets existential with the question, does generosity breed greed? What do healthy expectations look like in our grown up friendships, and why do we sometimes feel short-changed? Meanwhile, Marissa tries to concoct a formula to raising a funny child (the secret ingredient: a sprinkle of trauma)... before we argue over what makes the ultimate clerb night.

We're taking you on a wild ride this episode. Hanli and Marissa define their relationship as a little more than a friendship but a little less than lovers, before digging into what's been on their minds this week.

Marissa's made Hyrox her entire personality this past month, but shares her frustrations on the latest health crazes and her fury over the return of skinny culture. Hanli gets into the beautiful chaos of trying to understand motherhood and the mother wound  ahead of planning a family.

Hanli and Marissa are back for season 6 baby! We're bringing the lols, the feels, and real talk.

Marissa spills on her recent engagement, while Hanli gives us the debrief on her cultural wedding. We call out the pressure-cooker that is modern wedding culture and champion keeping it small, sacred, and unhinged.

We also question why Gen Z still thinks 30 is ancient and how they have the time for their elaborate skincare routines, before we go down memory lane about our nights at the clerb.

You know the drill – sass, nonsense and side-eye. Tune in.

Welcome back to a mega-personal, extra-long catch up episode, besties! We knoooow it's been a minute, but being able to record in person just hits different. So we saved up all the good stuff for this juicy little number. We talk about babies... like how are we meant to KNOW when we're ready to make one? Will we ever feel sure? Then we figure out where the lines are between our friends and our partners... what happens if they hate each other? What if they like each other too much? Tell us what you think.

For the first time in forever Hanli and Marissa take a break from their BFF LDR and record this whole episode without breaking eye contact... and things got deep.

We reflect on a few important life things, like... Have we taken self-hood too far? Is social media only feeding our need for external validation? Who is your safe space? Is there such thing as gossiping for good? Are we suffering from cringe blindness? So many thoughts, so many feelings. You need to tune in.

Do you guys ever just save up for a good cry? We're running through some of the weird reasons we've gotten emotional lately. Hanli starts to feel like a local in Mexico but shares what she's found hard about connecting with people and building community away from home. Marissa reflects on how growing up can sometimes feel like growing apart, as we all enter different chapters of our lives.

Can you BELIEVE it? Four years on and this cute little podcast is still going strong. We know it's been a while and we have so.. much.. catching up to do. In this episode, we give you the rundown of what we've been up to over the last few months, from moving half way across the world, to the weird and wonderful things we're learning about living with our partners.

First of all, an announcement. Hanli is kinda sorta leaving Singapore... and we need to talk about it. We share the full deets, and take a moment to reflect on what it means to make that jump.

Plus, lets talk about energy vampires. Chances are you know one, maybe you're close friends with one; they might even be a family member. You love them, but wow is it tiring dealing with them sometimes. We share our own little ways of keeping healthy boundaries, while still giving them the support they need.

As our last episode of the year, we want to say a BIG thank you to everyone who's supported us this year. We honestly could not have done it without you. We'll be back in 2024 with more spicy eps... but until then, take care, stay hot, be well.