I may be so upset about this since before I was Catholic I WAS the girl defining myself by how good the head was I gave to whoever would "let me." Knowing now how absolutely lost I was... It breaks my heart that there are young women and girls out there that think this is where they identity and/or worth would be. It's such a lie, and it causes such deep wounds- to ourselves, the men perpetuating it, and to our societal stability as a whole. Women- your worth isn't found in how sexually satisfying you are. And men- you're a fool to think that's all a woman would be good for.