Someone is always shosen in the family unit to represent and help break generations curses and to paid karmic debts. like or not they carry your burden on their heads. Sometimes these people are mistreate and outcast by their own family members. Know that by doing so you become a tool used by forces to destroy or disrupt the plan. But a wise and woke shosen will recognize that you are not their enemies but their teachers who help them with your outcasts , blames prosecutions and mistreatments to elevate and teach them how to break through and overcome. Your debt is paid if they are successful.