Ever seen the “Keep Out!” sign on your teen’s door?

No parent wants to be pushed out of their child’s life. But moms and dads should understand that the preteen years mark a transition from a world of positive ideals to an atmosphere of toxic attitudes.

Kids often don’t know how to push away the negative influences entering their lives. So in an effort to protect themselves, they begin to close off the entry points to their heart. The welcome mat that used to be at the door of your child’s heart gets replaced with that “Keep Out” sign.

Mom, Dad, ignoring your child is not an option. As your child goes through this confusing transition, don’t pry and don’t be obnoxious. Tread lightly. Above all, keep moving toward him or her with love, grace and relationship.

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