Guests: Derek Jackson and Jeff Gottfurcht, Co-Founders of CyberDive

Episode Summary

Every parent knows the feeling.

Your kid has a phone.

You know the internet never sleeps.

And you are pretty sure the rules you grew up with no longer apply.

In this episode, Joe sits down with two dads who came at the problem from opposite worlds and built a real solution together.

• Derek Jackson, a former U.S. Army Intelligence Officer who tracked extremist activity online

• Jeff Gottfurcht, a finance professional whose life changed after learning about a tragic case of online exploitation

This is not a panic episode.

It is not a tech lecture.

It is a grounded, honest conversation about digital safety, trust, transparency, and parenting in a connected world.

What You'll Hear in This Episode

• Why banning phones and apps often backfires with kids

• How online bullying has changed now that kids can never "go home" from it

• The real dangers parents underestimate on social platforms

• Why shame-based parenting fails in digital spaces

• How algorithms shape behavior, tone, and identity in kids

• The difference between privacy and safety for children

• Why involvement beats restriction every time

• How transparency can actually improve parent-child conversations

• The true story behind online sextortion and why it matters

• What parents should look for before giving a child their first phone

A Key Takeaway for Parents

Your child does not need fear.

They do not need silence.

They do not need you pretending the internet is not there.

They need a connection.

They need guidance.

They need you involved early, not reacting late.

About the Aqua One Phone

Joe and his guests discuss the Aqua One Phone by CyberDive, a device designed specifically for families that want visibility without constant confrontation.

Key features discussed include:

• Full-screen activity transparency for parents

• Instant Replay to review on-screen activity

• Built-in nudity prevention to stop sextortion before it starts

• No blind spots across apps, texts, or encrypted platforms

• Designed to encourage conversations instead of punishment

Resources & Links

• Learn more about CyberDive and the Aqua One Phone: https://cyberdive.co

• More episodes and resources: https://nosittingonthesideline.com

Why This Episode Matters

This conversation goes beyond apps and settings.

It is about how parents show up in a world their kids already live in.

If you are raising a child today, this episode is not optional listening.