66| Keeping Marriage and Other Very Long Term Relationships Alive - Athol Kay

In this episode Athol Kay gives advice on:

- Athol's origins (03:58)

- Athol's introduction into relationship advice based on his own relationship (05:20)

- Athol's personal background and meeting his future wife (07:08)

- Keeping focus on his long distance relationship (10:05)

- Athol's sexual life with his wife (see correction in introduction) (13:00)

- Is marriage different compared to any other very long-term relationship? (14:55)

- The positives and negatives of marriage versus a long-term relationship (16:33)

- Why should marriage be a consideration when in a long-term relationship? (17:40)

- Scenarios in which marriage should or should not be considered, from one's own perspective as well as with the other person (19:50)

- Changes and transition periods leading up to a sustaining marriage (24:05)

- Scenarios involving men giving up certain traits that lead to marriage problems down the line (24:45)

- Why men drop their alpha activities when in a long-term relationship or marriage (27:35)

- When critical moments of neglect or failure take place that result in a lack of trust or support, whether intentional or unintentional (30:20)

- Excuses pertaining to critical moments of neglect or failure (31:52)

- Miscommunication scenarios: Athol's personal example (33:54)

- Fixing breach of trust and miscommunication issues (39:20)

- Identifying alpha / beta problems versus trust problems (42:03)

- Worry benchmarks to consider when there is a decrease in sex (44:48)

- Reasons for sexual lifestyle changes (46:00)

- Balancing alpha and beta behavior concepts in a relationship (48:00)

- Recommendations for high quality advice in this area of dating, sex, and relationships (54:30)

- Top three recommendations to help men get results as fast as possible in this area of their lives (55:38)

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