Grace & Truth Talks

Keeping Score Is Destroying Your Marriage


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What happens when growth stops in a relationship?


In this powerful episode of Grace & Truth, Pastor James and Pastor Tiffany Edwards continue their series on the 7 Core Values to a Healthy Relationship and Marriage. This conversation dives deep into the real issues couples face — keeping score, emotional wounds, financial tension, sacrifice, trust, emotional maturity, spiritual growth, and the danger of becoming stagnant in relationships.


This episode is honest, transparent, funny, healing, and deeply practical for anyone who is dating, engaged, married, healing from heartbreak, or trying to build healthier relationships. Pastor James and Pastor Tiffany unpack why so many relationships fail when couples stop growing together and start competing against each other instead of fighting for one another.


Topics discussed in this episode:


Why “keeping score” destroys relationships

The role finances play in marriage tension

How sacrifice builds stronger relationships

Emotional vs spiritual growth in marriage

Why growth must remain the goal

The importance of shared values and healthy boundaries

How resentment turns into bitterness

The danger of stagnation in relationships

Becoming ONE in marriage

What true love actually looks like


One of the biggest moments in this episode is the revelation:


“All living things grow, but all growing things change.”


Whether you’re single, dating, engaged, or married — this conversation will challenge you to grow, heal, mature, and build relationships God’s way.


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Grace & Truth TalksBy James & Tiffaney Edwards