Guest : Jamil F Khan | author at Khamr: The Makings of a Waterslams (book) |

Khamr: The Makings of a Waterslams is a true story that maps the author’s experience of

living with an alcoholic father and the direct conflict of having to perform a Muslim life

that taught him that nearly everything he called home was forbidden. A detailed

account from his childhood to early adulthood, Jamil F. Khan lays bare the experience

of living in a so-called middle-class Coloured home in a neighbourhood called

Bernadino Heights in Kraaifontein, a suburb to the north of Cape Town. His memories

are overwhelmed by the constant discord that was created by the chaos and dysfunction

of his alcoholic home and a co-dependent relationship with his mother, while trying to

manage the daily routine of his parents’ keeping up appearances and him maintaining

scholastic excellence. Khan’s memories are clear and detailed, which in turn is

complemented by his scholarly thinking and analysis of those memories. He

interrogates the intersections of Islam, Colouredness and the hypocrisy of respectability

as well as the effect perceived class status has on these social realities in simple yet

incisive language, giving the reader more than just a memoir of pain and suffering.

Khan says about his debut book: ‘This is not a story for the romanticisation of pain and

perseverance, although it tells of overcoming many difficulties. It is a critique of secret

violence in faith communities and families, and the hypocrisy that has damaged so

many people still looking for a place and way to voice their trauma. This is a critique of

the value placed on ritual and culture at the expense of human life and well-being, and

the far-reaching consequences of systems of oppression dressed up as tradition.