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Kill the Habit That’s Killing Your Marriage
If you’re a Christian man trying to lead your family, protect your marriage, and stay faithful in a world that keeps pulling you off course—this episode is for you. Pastor Andre Anderson (aka “Barbecue Church”) breaks down why no one is coming to save you, why depending on a church paycheck can trap your calling, and why real masculinity isn’t toxic—it’s disciplined, protective, and surrendered to Christ.
You’ll hear straight talk on killing bad habits, resisting lust and temptation, handling marriage conflict without turning your wife into the enemy, and learning to fight the right battles—in the spirit, not in the flesh. Andre also shares the “225° Man” message: God forms men low and slow—like smoked meat—through heat, pressure, process, and rest. If you’ve been stuck in cycles, secret sin, burnout, or you feel spiritually numb, this conversation will light you up with practical, biblical mindset shifts and a call back to real brotherhood, prayer, and leadership.
Why “vocational ministry” isn’t the only real ministry
How to kill the patterns wrecking your marriage and leadership
The “225° Man” metaphor: process, discipline, and spiritual formation
Why men keep fighting the wrong battles (and how to shift spiritually)
How to create real men’s community (not surface-level events)
Guardrails for travel, temptation, and honoring your covenant
Why politics can’t be your savior—and what Kingdom focus looks like
00:00 Intro
00:23 Andre’s backstory: ministry, family, “7 jobs”
01:06 Barbecue Church + reaching men outside church walls
05:06 Corporate work + ministry opportunities in the field
08:18 Killing bad habits in marriage + attention & leadership
12:20 The 225° Man: God builds you low & slow
15:24 The struggle men face right now
18:26 Politics, presidents, and staying Kingdom-minded
25:05 Real brotherhood: locking arms, prayer, community
27:25 The #1 takeaway: KILL what doesn’t belong
34:02 Where to find Andre + closing
#ChristianMen #Masculinity #MarriageAdvice #MensMinistry #FaithAndDiscipline
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By Tim Holloway
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If you’re a Christian man trying to lead your family, protect your marriage, and stay faithful in a world that keeps pulling you off course—this episode is for you. Pastor Andre Anderson (aka “Barbecue Church”) breaks down why no one is coming to save you, why depending on a church paycheck can trap your calling, and why real masculinity isn’t toxic—it’s disciplined, protective, and surrendered to Christ.
You’ll hear straight talk on killing bad habits, resisting lust and temptation, handling marriage conflict without turning your wife into the enemy, and learning to fight the right battles—in the spirit, not in the flesh. Andre also shares the “225° Man” message: God forms men low and slow—like smoked meat—through heat, pressure, process, and rest. If you’ve been stuck in cycles, secret sin, burnout, or you feel spiritually numb, this conversation will light you up with practical, biblical mindset shifts and a call back to real brotherhood, prayer, and leadership.
Why “vocational ministry” isn’t the only real ministry
How to kill the patterns wrecking your marriage and leadership
The “225° Man” metaphor: process, discipline, and spiritual formation
Why men keep fighting the wrong battles (and how to shift spiritually)
How to create real men’s community (not surface-level events)
Guardrails for travel, temptation, and honoring your covenant
Why politics can’t be your savior—and what Kingdom focus looks like
00:00 Intro
00:23 Andre’s backstory: ministry, family, “7 jobs”
01:06 Barbecue Church + reaching men outside church walls
05:06 Corporate work + ministry opportunities in the field
08:18 Killing bad habits in marriage + attention & leadership
12:20 The 225° Man: God builds you low & slow
15:24 The struggle men face right now
18:26 Politics, presidents, and staying Kingdom-minded
25:05 Real brotherhood: locking arms, prayer, community
27:25 The #1 takeaway: KILL what doesn’t belong
34:02 Where to find Andre + closing
#ChristianMen #Masculinity #MarriageAdvice #MensMinistry #FaithAndDiscipline
Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices