The thing you love, cherish, adore, would take a bullet for, sometimes needs its own bullet.

Do you need to:

Kill your environment - leave Cali, NY or America

Kill your Job - for a place that you can grow

Kill your Relationship - when it's not the right one

Kill your investment and bias towards the past that used to be the "thing"

All cognitive bias' for the past with you living in the phrase, "if we can only get back to X."

...we are not going back to normal.

Answer: PIVOT