The order in which we do things matters, especially when it comes to our growth and our relationships. As it does with all things in our life, the gospel changes us and informs our priorities. We must put our God-given identity before our activity, we must put on initiating love before personal preferences, and we must pursue authenticity with one another before pursuing the benefits of community. Right order ensures right engagement and enjoyment of all of these important aspects of our life and growth.