In this episode of Kiss & Tell, we dive into the idea of “doing it for the plot” — those moments when you say yes to new experiences, adventures, and risks simply because it’ll make life more exciting. From spontaneous dates to saying yes to something out of your comfort zone, here's how to embrace these moments without regrets, avoid red flags, and know when it’s actually worth adding to your story.

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Hello my loves! We’re talking all things rebounds—why they get a bad rep, how they actually helped me after a toxic relationship, and the unexpected confidence boost they bring. I’m breaking down the pros, the cons, and why not every rebound is a mistake. Sometimes, it’s just what the healing era ordered. 💅🏽

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Omg the tea is piping today. I’m sharing it all- that time I dating a man who pretended to be holy—but was actually just a hypocrite in disguise. You know the type: quoting Bible verses, acting like a saint, but living a double life. We’re talking big ego, controlling behavior, and how “spiritual” can sometimes be a mask for manipulation. Let's get into it.

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In this episode of Kiss & Tell, I’m diving into why being friends with an ex is a hard no for me. From emotional confusion and delayed healing to men who want access without commitment—no thank you! I'm sharing all the reasons why staying connected keeps you stuck, and why choosing peace and boundaries is what I'm all about. Wish them well… from a distance.

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In this flirty and fun Season 2 kickoff episode, I’m sharing the tea on 5 dates I went on—from a classic sushi night to a sultry salsa dancing class. Whether you’re planning your next romantic night out or just looking to switch things up, these date ideas are cute, creative, and full of personality. We’re talking dancing, group vibes, playful competition, and intentional effort. Spoiler alert: bare minimum energy is not welcome this season x.

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Nothing is more infuriating than men who conveniently ‘forget’ to mention they have a whole girlfriend, fiancé, or even wife- while they’re out here flirting, texting, and trying to see you? Why do they play these games, and what can you do to protect yourself? Grab your tea-or wine-, because we’re about to spill all of it.

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Babe- if you have a first dating coming up, I got you! We’re covering everything from mindset shifts to outfit and conversation tips and how to actually have a fun, pressure-free first date. Grab your drink, get comfy, and let’s get into it!

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youtube: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Roxy James⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

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We’ve all been there—dating a guy who seemed promising at first but then turned out to be an insecure, ego-driven, emotionally draining mess. Whether it’s him ‘humbling’ you, getting jealous of your success, or making you feel like you need to *shrink* yourself to make him feel big, we’re breaking it all down today. Buckle up, because we are NOT holding back!

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youtube: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Roxy James⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

blog: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠www.roxyjames.com

OMG it feels so surreal to say it, but after telling you guys I was entering my dating era just a few episodes ago- i was asked out on a whole date. But since my life is a movie THE most awkward thing happened to me LOL. He was so sweet about everything and even showed up with a vase of flowers. I'm spilling all the tea 💋

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You guys firstly- someone asked me out on a dateee and I will be going on a date for the first time in almost a year. How wild is that- literally shook! But in today's episode, I’m giving you the ultimate Single Girl’s Guide to Valentine’s Day—how to make it fun, fabulous, and all about you! No moping, no feeling left out—just a whole lot of self-love and celebration.

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