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"I don't know when they were in middle school or something, what of them is likely to remain the most constant. And that is what I tend to look for. Like, it's not an absolute thing, but that is what I tend to look for. I also think the oddest things when. I don't know if danger is the word, but when things feel pressing or danger not dangerous, pressing, a shock in the moment, wherever, things tend to slow down for me."