Content Warning: Sexual abuse, spiritual abuse, severe mental health disorders Kyler’s story is one of “beauty from ashes”. He lives with dissociative identity disorder, a category of CPTSD. Kyler is one distinct personality in the “system”. The adults in his life abused him as a child—would not keep him safe—and so his brain stepped in and made a way to survive. Kyler watched the church fail him and his family over and over, refusing to help or even acknowledge the abuse and trauma. “This person who has PTSD has no clue where it’s from, has all this trauma, pain, and hurt…and the church just wants to throw Bible verses and actually doesn’t want to help you.” Today, Kyler is a completely different person than when he was young. He’s free to embrace his whole self without shame and fear, and the future is radiant. Links 988 https://988lifeline.org/ Recovering From Religion https://www.recoveringfromreligion.org/ Secular Therapy Project https://www.seculartherapy.org/ Interact For quotes, recommendations, transcripts and more see the full episode show notes https://gracefulatheist.com/2023/06/25/kyler-cptsd/ Graceful Atheist Podcast Merch! https://www.teepublic.com/user/gracefulatheistpodcast Join the Deconversion Anonymous Facebook group https://www.facebook.com/groups/deconversion Support the podcast on Patreon https://www.patreon.com/gracefulatheist Secular Grace https://gracefulatheist.com/2016/10/21/secular-grace/ Deconversion https://gracefulatheist.com/2017/12/03/deconversion-how-to/ Deconstruction https://gracefulatheist.com/2017/12/03/deconversion-how-to/#deconstruction/ Attribution "Waves" track written and produced by Makaih Beats https://makaihbeats.net/