On  Labor Day weekend 2021, we felt our way together into the territory of the emotional, spiritual, and physical work that so many of us end up—perhaps unexpectedly—providing for loved ones. What are the implications when relationships shift from, for example, offspring, spouse, or sibling—to caretaker? How can we provide support for one another under these circumstances? Li Kynvi is an intern minister at First Parish Church of Groton, MA, and a hospice music therapist.