Real Life Not Pretend: After 30 Edition. As Uncle Langston Hughes would say “Life for me ain’t been no crystal stair”. Learning to appreciate the valley moments in order to recognize our victorious peaks! My journey includes lots of unlearning, re-evaluating and declaring that even after 30 some of us are still winging it. It’s time to replace existing with LIVING abundantly in ALL areas. Join me in doing my BIG one and moving on to BIGGER & BETTER.

I left y’all on a cliff hanger, sooooo buckle your seatbelts and get ready for a rollercoaster. Better yet saddle up buttercup, because it’s a lot of shuckin’ & jiving going on 😂. Seriously, let me walk you behind the scenes of the battle between my heart vs. my discernment. I tell this story with no shame or regret, but more so conviction and grace for myself then, now and moving forward. Plenty of laughs but more lessons and gems to fulfill a lifetime. Enjoy💋

Why not start the season off with a bang! Did I ever tell you about that time I was blinded by the smoke & mirrors and all the red flags were bedazzled? Let’s just say a whole bunch of God, Google and Therapy saved my life.

In the spirit of Mother’s Day, join me as I give my mom her flowers. There are MANY things I receive from my mom, but the greatest will ALWAYS be her lessons. Season 1 comes to a close with a standing ovation to not just myself, but my amazing team (Shout to Bryan!!!) and ALL of my supporters aka The Hoochies (near & far). Thank you for turning my dreams into reality and until next time remember to Keep It Lace! ✌🏾💋

Online dating can be a trip; a WILD and WEIRD one if you’re not INTENTIONAL and STRATEGIC. Everyone claims to be gurus and coaches, but who in the hell is teaching what NOT to do?! No worries or need to give up, Ju got you covered ALWAYS Hoochies💋

Note to Self, I am SICK & TIRED of being SICK & TIRED!! Searching for safe spaces, soft landings and aesthetically pleasing lives, BUTTTTT I completely forgot about the physical. The shell of my own existence. May I CHERISH, APPRECIATE and LOVE on the very body I depend on daily 💚.

Love comes with risk; such as heartbreaks, disappointments and breakups. Sometimes we bounce back and sometimes we don’t. Join us as we reflect on the not so pretty side of relationships, the breakup to maybe not makeup. Featuring Hoochie of the Week: Biana of GOOD by Biana

A gentle reminder to myself and all of my favorite Hoochies out there! You’re never too much and always JUST ENOUGH! No more dimming our shine to brighten another person’s ego. With all the Razzle and Dazzle, Xo - Ju 💋

Just when you think you know yourself and what you like. Our parents help mold and shape our initial interactions when it comes to relationships, love, communication and role dynamics. We break down our experiences and the lessons that follow.