Allie, Kristina, Evan and Max discuss those fumes from past relationships (1:50); the shame that motivates (7:40); whatever fucked up things you get from your parents (13:01); Sonya Lalli joins the conversation (15:57); how finding the right partner is like finding the right career (18:21); Allie, Max, and Sonya talk about the Dev’s in their own pasts (23:17); Katy Perry, Julia Roberts, and Ayesha At Last (28:52)