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LAMENT #7: THE SILENCE OF GOD IN THE WILDERNESS
As usual, I strongly encourage you to listen to the audio rather than only reading this message. I said several things in audio that did not make it into the written version.
To listen to the sermon, click the play button: http://www.lifetogetherchurches.com/media/sermons/Lament/lam7.mp3
For some people, the player above may not work. If that happens to you, use the link below to either download, or open a player in a new page to listen. You can also find us on Spotify at https://open.spotify.com/show/6KKzSHPFT466aXfNT2r9OD
To download, right click on the link (or do whatever you do on a Mac) and save it to your computer: Download Lament Part 7
Grumbling versus Lamenting, Part 7. Hosea 2:14-23; John 10:27; John 16:12-15
Lamenters often feel unheard. Perhaps you have experienced God’s silence. Today, I want to explore the idea that God’s silence can be a gift. I didn’t arrive at this perspective easily. Before I share more about this, I think it’s important to understand that not hearing God’s voice should be unusual. I have come to expect that it is common for God to talk with us. Even Old Covenant saints sometimes had conversations with God. Some of those conversations are recorded in Scripture. God spoke with Abraham and David and psalmists too. Of course, we know that He spoke to and through prophets. In the New Covenant age, we can expect that God will speak with each of His kids.
We sometimes have a hard time hearing His voice. I suspect that this is partly true because we haven’t been taught that God wants to have conversations with us, even though Jesus said,
27 My sheep listen to my voice; I know them, and they follow me. 28 I give them eternal life, and they will never perish. No one can snatch them away from me, 29 for my Father has given them to me, and he is more powerful than anyone else. No one can snatch them from the Father’s hand. (John 10:27-29, NLT)
Jesus told us that the Holy Spirit would speak to us:
12 “There is so much more I want to tell you, but you can’t bear it now. 13 When the Spirit of truth comes, he will guide you into all truth. He will not speak on his own but will tell you what he has heard. He will tell you about the future. 14 He will bring me glory by telling you whatever he receives from me. 15 All that belongs to the Father is mine; this is why I said, ‘The Spirit will tell you whatever he receives from me.’ (John 16:12-15, NLT)
Even so, it seems much easier to listen to Satan’s voice. The reason for this is because we have spent a lifetime listening to and unwittingly embracing his messages, which have often come to us through people of influence, like parents, teachers, coaches and even strangers. It’s the voice that accuses, condemns, shames, and discourages you. Even his name means “adversary.” Satan is, after all, identified as “the accuser of the brethren” (Revelation 12:10). One of his chief strategies is to discourage you and influence you to live from a false identity and not from what God says about you.
When God speaks, even if He is bringing a corrective word to us, He infuses us with hope. I remember when my high school wrestling coach saw me get virtually destroyed by an opponent. I was a freshman competing against upper classmen. I was new to the sport and my skill level was very rudimentary. About the only thing I had going for me was that I was scrappy and coachable. After the match, he didn’t call me out, he called me up. He put his hands on my shoulders and looked into my eyes and said, “Kevin, that kid took you apart, didn’t he? It’s okay. On Monday, you and I will be back in the practice room and I am going to show you some stuff that is going to make you a better wrestler. Kevin, you are on your way to becoming a champion.” My coach didn’t pretend I did well. I didn’t. But he delivered his concerns with hope. That’s what our heavenly Father does.
(Tom Here, for a moment) I want to emphasize this point that Kevin is making. If you are being influenced by the devil, you feel guilty, and you feel hopeless. The guilt plays in your mind over and over again. But it doesn’t help you. It doesn’t move you closer to God. The Lord does speak to us sometimes in order to correct and teach us. But, as Kevin says, when it is the Holy Spirit at work, even though we might hear that we are wrong, and that we need to repent, we feel a sense of “goodness” at work. We feel hope. We think, “Yes, that’s right. I’m so sorry. THANK you!” Conviction of the Holy Spirit motivates us. On the other hand, we can recognize when the devil is accusing us, because we are left hopeless, unmotivated, stuck in a loop of regret and shame.
(Kevin Again) When you ask God questions, expect answers. Any voice that responds to you with shame and condemnation is not His voice. Ask your Father to silence those distracting and condemning voices and to help you get better acquainted with His voice. Over time, you’ll be able to tell the difference. This has been a beautiful and encouraging journey for me. So, when I don’t hear Him, when I can’t hear Him, I get scared. I wonder, “What’s happening, Lord?” What’s keeping me from being able to hear you?”
(Tom)When your usual way of hearing from God is disrupted, don’t try to figure this out without the benefit of your faith community. This means, among other things, that you should listen and consider carefully, what they say to you about God’s silence. We, who try to do life together through house church, should find this fairly easy. All you have to do is bring it up with a friend or mentor, or bring it up during a church meeting, in which we desire everyone to participate. You might want to write down and pray over the input that is given to you by your fellow believers.
(Kevin) You may learn that some unrepented of sin is keeping you from hearing Him. Sin can dull our senses, and deceive us. Or, your inability to hear God may have nothing at all to do with sin.
It may be that you are entering a season of the deep working of the Spirit to bring you to new levels of consecration. God likes to bring us to places where we don’t rely on our usual spiritual senses in favor of simply learning to lean into Him amid the chaos we are feeling. This will likely mean that God will bring you, in your journey, to where it feels like you are entirely alone, abandoned and even forsaken– where hearing Him seems like a thing of the past. His silence can be scary. You may find yourself panicking. He has not abandoned you. He will not leave you alone, but in such a season you may feel entirely forsaken.
I don’t know of anything that has been more difficult for me than the extended periods of time when I seem unable to hear from God as I normally do. If you are experiencing this, it is likely that it won’t be one of your favorite things. Consider though, that perhaps God is ordaining this time of silence. See this as an opportunity for you to lean into God. Ask Him to help you to trust Him with all of your expectations about what the Christian life should look like. Also ask Him, to orient you around Him, to help you surrender every hope and longing. Journal your feelings. Record your lament. How does this silence feel to you? Does this season of silence cause you to be disappointed with God? Frustrated? Angry? If so, write these things down. It is likely that what you are experiencing is not permanent. Again, I want to remind you not to make this journey alone. Some confidantes need to walk alongside you.
Let’s look at hero of the faith who walked in obedience to God even when it seemed to be tearing his heart apart. Look at Hosea 2:14,15 (NLT). You may know the story well. If not, let me summarize. The prophet Hosea was directed by God to marry a woman named Gomer. Gomer had been earning a living as a prostitute. Hosea married her and they had children together. Even so, she’d leave him and wander off to re-engage with her previous clients. Yet Hosea would take her back.
God intended that Hosea’s relationship with Gomer serve as a living metaphor of His relationship with Israel. God wanted His people to know that even though they had been unfaithful to Him, He wasn’t giving up on them. He, through Hosea, delivered the following promise,
“But then I will win her back once again.
I will lead her into the desert
and speak tenderly to her there.
I will return her vineyards to her
and transform the Valley of Trouble into a gateway of hope.
She will give herself to me there,
as she did long ago when she was young,
when I freed her from her captivity in Egypt.
Israel, God’s covenant people, were known for regularly straying. God wanted them to know that in spite of this He was committed to winning them back. God is known as “the hound of heaven.” He does not easily give up either on His Old Covenant people (Israel) or on Christians, His New Covenant people. He only eventually and quite reluctantly gives up when we, after rebuffing him over the course of time, convince Him that we truly do not want Him. Because He is not intrusive (notice Revelation 3:20), non coercive (see 1 Corinthians 13:5 ESV) and can be resisted (see Acts 7:51), He will respect a decision which He recognizes as our permanent posture of rejecting Him. But if that is not the case, God stays on our trail. He works to “win” us back. He doesn’t force, but He woos. Look at the above passage: “I will win her back…”
This passage also tells us that God will lead His people to a particular place. Where? Into the desert! Yikes. A desert is a difficult place. Some translations translate this word as “wilderness.” These days, we think of the wilderness as a beautiful, positive place. But in ancient times, with very little of today’s technology, the wilderness was a terrifying, lonely, dangerous place. It can be a challenge to one’s very survival. A spiritual desert/wilderness is a place where you don’t feel His presence and often where hearing Him seems impossible. It’s a place where you are unable to maintain any sense of equilibrium. Confusion persists and unsettles you. It is a testing ground. It is in just such a place that God promises to “speak tenderly” to you and it is here that He returns your “vineyards,” i..e. your provision. Note also that it is in the “Valley of Trouble” that God promises you a “gateway of hope.” God loves to show that He doesn’t need to use a Hawaiian vacation or a week in the Bahamas to fill your cup. In your personal “Valley of Trouble” He will reveal His tenderness. He promises to enable you to give yourself to Him as you did at the beginning of your journey. This is restoration. This is what awaits you.
I remember hearing some teaching when I was young about what God would often do to prepare any of His followers for greater usefulness. A reference would be made to the story of Abraham and how God gave him a promise some 25 years or so before God delivered on that promise, the promise being the birth of a child. The idea that was conveyed was that God used those 25 years of waiting to prepare Abraham and Sarah to receive the promise, namely a son they named Isaac. Then, the preacher would tell the story of Moses. He would tell of how God had called him to be a deliverer of Israel from Egyptian bondage, but that it took 40 years on the backside of a desert to prepare Moses to lead God’s people. Then there would be a discussion about David– how he was anointed king at about 13 years of age but didn’t become king until he was 30 and how God used those years as a shepherd boy and then as a young warrior running from Saul to get him ready to lead Israel. Of course, no such sermon would be complete without a mention of Joseph and how as a teen he had dreams of himself in a position of authority and influence. He made the mistake of sharing those dreams with his brothers, who believed his grandiose dreams were simply delusions of grandeur. However, we know that Joseph’s dreams eventually came to pass, but only after years of hardship.
The obvious lesson is that there is usually a gestation period between the initial delivery by God of a promise and the time that special thing God has promised actually arrives. The gestation period is recognized as a hard period of waiting followed by the birth of some vision or the materialization of some hope. It is often implied by those who tell these beautiful biblical stories that the waiting will be rewarded with something obvious and perhaps tangible, something circumstantial that will convince you that God’s favor rests on you. Perhaps we think of the fulfillment of this hope that has been deferred as some kind of spiritual gold that comes to those who endure necessary time in the crucible of suffering.
What if the gold isn’t something circumstantial and tangible? What if it doesn’t include any recognition from people? What if the gold is intimacy with God? What if it is being more in love with Jesus? What if the gold is the pleasure of resting in being God’s beloved? Will that be enough? I submit for your consideration that you will find that there is nothing that is better. I believe that the suffering lamenters endure surely leads to this.
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By Tom HilpertAs usual, I strongly encourage you to listen to the audio rather than only reading this message. I said several things in audio that did not make it into the written version.
To listen to the sermon, click the play button: http://www.lifetogetherchurches.com/media/sermons/Lament/lam7.mp3
For some people, the player above may not work. If that happens to you, use the link below to either download, or open a player in a new page to listen. You can also find us on Spotify at https://open.spotify.com/show/6KKzSHPFT466aXfNT2r9OD
To download, right click on the link (or do whatever you do on a Mac) and save it to your computer: Download Lament Part 7
Grumbling versus Lamenting, Part 7. Hosea 2:14-23; John 10:27; John 16:12-15
Lamenters often feel unheard. Perhaps you have experienced God’s silence. Today, I want to explore the idea that God’s silence can be a gift. I didn’t arrive at this perspective easily. Before I share more about this, I think it’s important to understand that not hearing God’s voice should be unusual. I have come to expect that it is common for God to talk with us. Even Old Covenant saints sometimes had conversations with God. Some of those conversations are recorded in Scripture. God spoke with Abraham and David and psalmists too. Of course, we know that He spoke to and through prophets. In the New Covenant age, we can expect that God will speak with each of His kids.
We sometimes have a hard time hearing His voice. I suspect that this is partly true because we haven’t been taught that God wants to have conversations with us, even though Jesus said,
27 My sheep listen to my voice; I know them, and they follow me. 28 I give them eternal life, and they will never perish. No one can snatch them away from me, 29 for my Father has given them to me, and he is more powerful than anyone else. No one can snatch them from the Father’s hand. (John 10:27-29, NLT)
Jesus told us that the Holy Spirit would speak to us:
12 “There is so much more I want to tell you, but you can’t bear it now. 13 When the Spirit of truth comes, he will guide you into all truth. He will not speak on his own but will tell you what he has heard. He will tell you about the future. 14 He will bring me glory by telling you whatever he receives from me. 15 All that belongs to the Father is mine; this is why I said, ‘The Spirit will tell you whatever he receives from me.’ (John 16:12-15, NLT)
Even so, it seems much easier to listen to Satan’s voice. The reason for this is because we have spent a lifetime listening to and unwittingly embracing his messages, which have often come to us through people of influence, like parents, teachers, coaches and even strangers. It’s the voice that accuses, condemns, shames, and discourages you. Even his name means “adversary.” Satan is, after all, identified as “the accuser of the brethren” (Revelation 12:10). One of his chief strategies is to discourage you and influence you to live from a false identity and not from what God says about you.
When God speaks, even if He is bringing a corrective word to us, He infuses us with hope. I remember when my high school wrestling coach saw me get virtually destroyed by an opponent. I was a freshman competing against upper classmen. I was new to the sport and my skill level was very rudimentary. About the only thing I had going for me was that I was scrappy and coachable. After the match, he didn’t call me out, he called me up. He put his hands on my shoulders and looked into my eyes and said, “Kevin, that kid took you apart, didn’t he? It’s okay. On Monday, you and I will be back in the practice room and I am going to show you some stuff that is going to make you a better wrestler. Kevin, you are on your way to becoming a champion.” My coach didn’t pretend I did well. I didn’t. But he delivered his concerns with hope. That’s what our heavenly Father does.
(Tom Here, for a moment) I want to emphasize this point that Kevin is making. If you are being influenced by the devil, you feel guilty, and you feel hopeless. The guilt plays in your mind over and over again. But it doesn’t help you. It doesn’t move you closer to God. The Lord does speak to us sometimes in order to correct and teach us. But, as Kevin says, when it is the Holy Spirit at work, even though we might hear that we are wrong, and that we need to repent, we feel a sense of “goodness” at work. We feel hope. We think, “Yes, that’s right. I’m so sorry. THANK you!” Conviction of the Holy Spirit motivates us. On the other hand, we can recognize when the devil is accusing us, because we are left hopeless, unmotivated, stuck in a loop of regret and shame.
(Kevin Again) When you ask God questions, expect answers. Any voice that responds to you with shame and condemnation is not His voice. Ask your Father to silence those distracting and condemning voices and to help you get better acquainted with His voice. Over time, you’ll be able to tell the difference. This has been a beautiful and encouraging journey for me. So, when I don’t hear Him, when I can’t hear Him, I get scared. I wonder, “What’s happening, Lord?” What’s keeping me from being able to hear you?”
(Tom)When your usual way of hearing from God is disrupted, don’t try to figure this out without the benefit of your faith community. This means, among other things, that you should listen and consider carefully, what they say to you about God’s silence. We, who try to do life together through house church, should find this fairly easy. All you have to do is bring it up with a friend or mentor, or bring it up during a church meeting, in which we desire everyone to participate. You might want to write down and pray over the input that is given to you by your fellow believers.
(Kevin) You may learn that some unrepented of sin is keeping you from hearing Him. Sin can dull our senses, and deceive us. Or, your inability to hear God may have nothing at all to do with sin.
It may be that you are entering a season of the deep working of the Spirit to bring you to new levels of consecration. God likes to bring us to places where we don’t rely on our usual spiritual senses in favor of simply learning to lean into Him amid the chaos we are feeling. This will likely mean that God will bring you, in your journey, to where it feels like you are entirely alone, abandoned and even forsaken– where hearing Him seems like a thing of the past. His silence can be scary. You may find yourself panicking. He has not abandoned you. He will not leave you alone, but in such a season you may feel entirely forsaken.
I don’t know of anything that has been more difficult for me than the extended periods of time when I seem unable to hear from God as I normally do. If you are experiencing this, it is likely that it won’t be one of your favorite things. Consider though, that perhaps God is ordaining this time of silence. See this as an opportunity for you to lean into God. Ask Him to help you to trust Him with all of your expectations about what the Christian life should look like. Also ask Him, to orient you around Him, to help you surrender every hope and longing. Journal your feelings. Record your lament. How does this silence feel to you? Does this season of silence cause you to be disappointed with God? Frustrated? Angry? If so, write these things down. It is likely that what you are experiencing is not permanent. Again, I want to remind you not to make this journey alone. Some confidantes need to walk alongside you.
Let’s look at hero of the faith who walked in obedience to God even when it seemed to be tearing his heart apart. Look at Hosea 2:14,15 (NLT). You may know the story well. If not, let me summarize. The prophet Hosea was directed by God to marry a woman named Gomer. Gomer had been earning a living as a prostitute. Hosea married her and they had children together. Even so, she’d leave him and wander off to re-engage with her previous clients. Yet Hosea would take her back.
God intended that Hosea’s relationship with Gomer serve as a living metaphor of His relationship with Israel. God wanted His people to know that even though they had been unfaithful to Him, He wasn’t giving up on them. He, through Hosea, delivered the following promise,
“But then I will win her back once again.
I will lead her into the desert
and speak tenderly to her there.
I will return her vineyards to her
and transform the Valley of Trouble into a gateway of hope.
She will give herself to me there,
as she did long ago when she was young,
when I freed her from her captivity in Egypt.
Israel, God’s covenant people, were known for regularly straying. God wanted them to know that in spite of this He was committed to winning them back. God is known as “the hound of heaven.” He does not easily give up either on His Old Covenant people (Israel) or on Christians, His New Covenant people. He only eventually and quite reluctantly gives up when we, after rebuffing him over the course of time, convince Him that we truly do not want Him. Because He is not intrusive (notice Revelation 3:20), non coercive (see 1 Corinthians 13:5 ESV) and can be resisted (see Acts 7:51), He will respect a decision which He recognizes as our permanent posture of rejecting Him. But if that is not the case, God stays on our trail. He works to “win” us back. He doesn’t force, but He woos. Look at the above passage: “I will win her back…”
This passage also tells us that God will lead His people to a particular place. Where? Into the desert! Yikes. A desert is a difficult place. Some translations translate this word as “wilderness.” These days, we think of the wilderness as a beautiful, positive place. But in ancient times, with very little of today’s technology, the wilderness was a terrifying, lonely, dangerous place. It can be a challenge to one’s very survival. A spiritual desert/wilderness is a place where you don’t feel His presence and often where hearing Him seems impossible. It’s a place where you are unable to maintain any sense of equilibrium. Confusion persists and unsettles you. It is a testing ground. It is in just such a place that God promises to “speak tenderly” to you and it is here that He returns your “vineyards,” i..e. your provision. Note also that it is in the “Valley of Trouble” that God promises you a “gateway of hope.” God loves to show that He doesn’t need to use a Hawaiian vacation or a week in the Bahamas to fill your cup. In your personal “Valley of Trouble” He will reveal His tenderness. He promises to enable you to give yourself to Him as you did at the beginning of your journey. This is restoration. This is what awaits you.
I remember hearing some teaching when I was young about what God would often do to prepare any of His followers for greater usefulness. A reference would be made to the story of Abraham and how God gave him a promise some 25 years or so before God delivered on that promise, the promise being the birth of a child. The idea that was conveyed was that God used those 25 years of waiting to prepare Abraham and Sarah to receive the promise, namely a son they named Isaac. Then, the preacher would tell the story of Moses. He would tell of how God had called him to be a deliverer of Israel from Egyptian bondage, but that it took 40 years on the backside of a desert to prepare Moses to lead God’s people. Then there would be a discussion about David– how he was anointed king at about 13 years of age but didn’t become king until he was 30 and how God used those years as a shepherd boy and then as a young warrior running from Saul to get him ready to lead Israel. Of course, no such sermon would be complete without a mention of Joseph and how as a teen he had dreams of himself in a position of authority and influence. He made the mistake of sharing those dreams with his brothers, who believed his grandiose dreams were simply delusions of grandeur. However, we know that Joseph’s dreams eventually came to pass, but only after years of hardship.
The obvious lesson is that there is usually a gestation period between the initial delivery by God of a promise and the time that special thing God has promised actually arrives. The gestation period is recognized as a hard period of waiting followed by the birth of some vision or the materialization of some hope. It is often implied by those who tell these beautiful biblical stories that the waiting will be rewarded with something obvious and perhaps tangible, something circumstantial that will convince you that God’s favor rests on you. Perhaps we think of the fulfillment of this hope that has been deferred as some kind of spiritual gold that comes to those who endure necessary time in the crucible of suffering.
What if the gold isn’t something circumstantial and tangible? What if it doesn’t include any recognition from people? What if the gold is intimacy with God? What if it is being more in love with Jesus? What if the gold is the pleasure of resting in being God’s beloved? Will that be enough? I submit for your consideration that you will find that there is nothing that is better. I believe that the suffering lamenters endure surely leads to this.