How do you know if someone is the right person to date? Is it still possible to have a godly relationship in today's culture? And how do you wait for God's best without settling?
In Episode 2 of the Lancaster Relationships Mini Series, Karolina Grant is joined by pastors Chris and Shannon Hodgman for a practical, biblical conversation on Christian dating, healthy relationships, waiting on God, and building a marriage God's way.
Together, they unpack the powerful principle, "Choose Your Pain." Every relationship decision comes with a cost—you can choose the temporary discomfort of waiting, trusting God, and maintaining biblical standards, or the lasting pain that often comes from rushing, ignoring red flags, and settling for less than God's best.
This episode explores:
• How to recognise godly character before dating
• Why character matters
• Healthy dating boundaries
• Red flags to watch for in relationships
• Why waiting on God is never wasted
• Emotional maturity, discernment, and purity
• How to prepare for a Christ-centred relationship
Whether you're single, dating, healing from past relationships, or believing God for your future spouse, this episode will encourage you to pursue wisdom over feelings, discernment over pressure, and God's best over temporary gratification.
Remember: You're marrying patterns, not potential. Don't lower God's standard because culture lowered theirs. God isn't withholding from you. His timing is good, His grace restores, and His plans for your future are worth waiting for.
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