Its a new year and some are carrying the same problems, dealing with some of the same issues that have not be resolved in relationships.  Its time to let go and forgive.  This is easy to say and difficult for some but as a believer, a woman of God who influences others forgiveness its vital.  Maybe you have forgiven and think your fine but for some reason you keep reviewing it over and over in your mind.  Which is an indication that you really aren't and its now time to deal with it and let it go.