Leaderships. In the court system don't understand narcissists. Maybe they don't know what a narcissistic is.or don't care. Or.maybe they are a narcasists themselves. And the courts need to understand this. A narcasists will go as far as making you homeless. Or do something tragic. Mediators need to understand this. Because they are putting you in danger. You can't not co parent with a narcasists. If the mediator says we have to get a long tell them no. I need no contact. Because the narcasists will continue making your life miserable.