Leadership isn’t clean. It isn’t safe. And it definitely isn’t about trying to look good. Dan Tocchini breaks that illusion wide open. He’s spent decades inside organizations, building leaders, shaping culture, and—most importantly—owning where he got it wrong. One of the most powerful truths he brings to the table is this: if you’re not willing to put something at stake, you’re not actually leading. You’re managing your image.

Dan shares the hard-earned lessons from running a company for over 20 years and realizing that avoiding tough conversations wasn’t compassion—it was self-protection. Performance issues don’t disappear because you soften your language or dance around the truth. They compound. And when leaders avoid conflict, what they’re really avoiding is accountability. Dan calls that out for what it is, and he doesn’t sugarcoat it.

This conversation cuts straight into emotional maturity, conflict, and what Dan calls “paradoxical leadership”—the tension between empathy and enforcement. Caring deeply about people while still holding the line. Being willing to argue well, not to win, but to sharpen thinking and make better decisions. Dan reframes conflict as a resource, not a threat, and explains why leaders who can’t engage it responsibly end up creating far bigger problems down the road.

With nearly five decades of marriage, decades of leadership work, and a lifetime of experience, Dan brings wisdom you can’t fake and perspective you can’t shortcut. This is about leadership with skin in the game—where authenticity, consequences, and respect all matter. If you want to lead people, teams, or a company without losing yourself—or them—this conversation matters.

We Meet:  Dan Tocchini III, 

Connect:

Connect with Rick: https://linktr.ee/mrrickjordan

Connect with Dan:  https://takenewground.com/

Subscribe & Review to ALL IN with Rick Jordan on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/RickJordanALLIN