Before anyone gives you a title or a team, people are already watching how you lead yourself—how you handle stress, keep your word, and respond when things go wrong.

In this episode of Built to Grow, Valdet breaks down what self‑leadership actually looks like day‑to‑day so you can become the kind of person others naturally trust to lead.

Across three practical pillars—self‑feedback, decision hygiene, and repair after mistakes—you’ll learn how to tell yourself the truth without crushing your confidence, make clearer decisions (and communicate them better), and handle dropped balls in a way that builds credibility instead of quietly eroding it. This is a grounded, no‑fluff solo episode you can revisit whenever you feel the gap between who you are right now and the leader you want to become.

You’ll learn how to:

• Build a simple weekly self‑feedback loop that actually leads to behavior change
• Spot and upgrade the hidden stories you tell yourself after wins and failures
• Make cleaner decisions and communicate them so people know what to expect
• Recover from mistakes through honest repair, not over‑explaining or disappearing
• Practice self‑leadership now, even if you don’t have an official leadership title yet