Why does God allow suffering in our lives, and how should we respond to it? In this meditation, Fr. Paul Donlan reflects on St. Joseph as a model of faithful endurance, explaining that suffering is an unavoidable part of life but also a means by which God forms us in holiness. Drawing from Hebrews 12, he emphasizes that God’s discipline, though painful, is an expression of a loving Father shaping His children to share in Christ’s holiness. Like Joseph, who obediently faced uncertainty, hardship, and responsibility without complaint — Christians are called to carry the crosses given to them with trust in God’s providence. By looking to Jesus, the ultimate model who endured the Cross, believers can understand both the purpose of suffering and the way to live through it: with humility, prayer, and confidence that God, along with Mary, Joseph, the angels, and the communion of saints, accompanies them on the path toward holiness and heaven.