A lot of people in relationships are not even sure they are going to end up in marriage with each other but refuse to say it to each other. Don’t lead anyone on if you know you just want to have fun with them and dumb them when you see the person you feel is qualified to be ur husband or wife. Some of this barrenness some ladies face are as the result of what someone did cos dey were hurt, used and dumped. Same things goes to the guys, you might be be doing very well before you got married but as soon as u got married things just stops working. Sometimes you should ask questions. This things could be avoided if only we could be saying exactly what we need from each others and not leading or deceiving our selfs.