As humans, sometimes it feels selfish to set boundaries and put our own needs first. 
In reality, putting yourself first has nothing to do with, ‘I'm not thinking of anybody else.’ It has everything to do with ‘How do I make myself happy so that my relationships and life as a whole are healthy and fulfilling?’
It’s like they tell you before every flight takes off — you’ve got to put your own oxygen mask on first, before you can help someone else!
This episode is all about learning how to be “healthy selfish,” because figuring out, communicating, and prioritizing your needs isn’t actually selfish!
Boundaries make the world go round if you can learn how to speak up about yours and advocate for your needs and values. 
Whether it's a relationship, family, friends, or your job, learning to be “healthy selfish” will only bring good to you and the people around you.  
Kass and Steve talk about boundaries, speaking up for yourself, and why it is so important to ask for what you want in life.

Learning to be “Healthy Selfish”

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Being healthy selfish means taking care of yourself first so that you can show up with presence and power in your life.

The Art of Healthy Selfishness

Connection is a huge part of every relationship and human interaction in your life.
We cannot have healthy, authentic, meaningful relationships without connecting on some level.
And those connections are a huge part of what makes our lives happy and fulfilling.
Whether it's your coworkers, your boss, best friend, partner, spouse, kids, whoever—communication is key to connection.
Do you ever find yourself struggling to speak up and voice your opinion?
Or maybe you feel that even when you do, you’re misunderstood?
Do you ever find yourself communicating ineffectively because you’re too reactive?
We as human beings have a deep desire to be loved and understood, to feel heard and seen.
It’s impossible to do that if we are unable to communicate effectively in order to connect with those around us.
In this episode, Kass and Steve discuss how to connect on a deeper, more authentic level through effective communication.

The Art of Connection

How to stop getting stuck in the decision making process, and take action instead!

4 Tips to Overcome Decidophobia

As we travel through our day to day lives, we all experience a myriad of emotions!
Whether you’re happy, sad, content, angry, frustrated, joyful, or whatever it may be—it’s important to pay attention to how you are expressing that.
Saying things like “I am mad” or “I am frustrated” comes pretty naturally to most of us, but is that the most effective or healthy way to express or think about your emotions?
When we use “I am” statements with negative emotions, we are labeling ourselves as a fleeting emotion, something that we don’t want to be forever.
You are not mad, you feel mad, and though that may not seem like a big difference—changing the way you think about and vocalize your emotions can help you take back your power.
In this episode, Kass and Steve talk about the difference between “I am” and “I feel” statements, and the power behind the words you use to describe yourself. 
After all, we are the creators of our lives. So what you say matters, because it dictates your future.

I Am vs. I Feel

Kass and Steve share what works for them and give a few suggestions on how you can keep your energy and productivity up!

Learning to be “Healthy Selfish”

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