Learning to diminish yourself for the comfort of others is something many minorities subconsciously learn as a defence mechanism in order to assimilate. It is much more difficult to consciously examine and unlearn, especially when enforcing your boundaries has been labelled as impolite.<a href="https://www.instagram.com/kaidainivy/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@KaidainIvy</a>

Learning to diminish yourself for the comfort of others is something many minorities subconsciously learn as a defence mechanism in order to assimilate. It is much more difficult to consciously examine and unlearn, especially when enforcing your boundaries has been labelled as impolite. @KaidainIvy

Learning to diminish yourself for the comfort of others is something many minorities subconsciously learn as a defence mechanism in order to assimilate. It is much more difficult to consciously examine and unlearn, especially when enforcing your boundaries has been labelled as impolite.<a href="https://www.instagram.com/kaidainivy/" rel="noopener noreferrer">@KaidainIvy</a>

Learning to Diminish Yourself For The Comfort Of Others

Kaidain Ivy works as a fairy godmother turning something seemingly nothing and turning it into a ball gown. She creates entire outfits from scratch or by repurposing found items such bedsheets and curtains. 

She turns the ugly in this world into art. Her collections often feature several transformations and reveal garments as nothing is ever what it seems and there are always enough shoes for every Cinderella. Believe in everyday magic; the beauty will not fade at midnight.

A Tone Meant For Me is her safe space to share her experiences, to invite you in, to let you know that you are not alone and that you are enough.

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Kaidain Ivy works as a fairy godmother turning something seemingly nothing and turning it into a ball gown. She creates entire outfits from scratch or by repurposing found items such bedsheets and curtains. She turns the ugly in this world into art. Her collections often feature several transformations and reveal garments as nothing is ever what it seems and there are always enough shoes for every Cinderella. Believe in everyday magic; the beauty will not fade at midnight. A Tone Meant For Me is her safe space to share her experiences, to invite you in, to let you know that you are not alone and that you are enough.

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