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Without a doubt one of the hardest lessons thats taken me the longest to learn is that you cant change people .

Ive tried . Ive sent people reels, youtube links, quotes, pages out of book . Ive listened to them and had hour long conversations about what they want out of life and what they struggle with .

Ive had conversations about there health issues and what they could do to fix it. And time and time and time again Ive been forced to accept that there is no way to make people change. Even when its for the better .

If they do not truly want it for themself , then it will not happen . After years of waiting and expecting Ive learned to let go of the disappointment . And also learned that taking it personal was not only unfair to them but it was especially unfair to me !

We don't get to snap our fingers and create better realties for the people we love. Thats Gods job , but what we can do is learn to accept them and love them for who they are and where they are .

And with work and healthy detachment somehow find peace in that  .