Becoming a mum threw into question my identity - whilst being “just a mum” (if there can ever be such a thing) is enough for so many people, for me, regaining back some aspects of my former-self was vital. Going back to work, having time to myself, learning new skills all added to me being the best mum I could be. The statement is true - happy mum, happy baby - whatever that looks like for you, do it!