Leaving My Echo Chamber

Leaving My Echo Chamber

By Suzanne SimmsSociety & Culture
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Leaving My Echo Chamber episodes

  • The Journey From Vietnam to the American Dream | Leaving My Echo Chamber

    In this episode of Leaving My Echo Chamber, I sit down with my friend Johnny to hear the incredible story of his family’s journey from Vietnam to America.
    Johnny’s father was a commander in the South Vietnamese army who fought alongside the Americans during the Vietnam War. After the war, his father spent five years as a prisoner, and Johnny was born after his father finally came home.
    Eventually, Johnny’s family was sponsored to come to the United States. They left everything behind and arrived with very little, beginning a completely new life in America.
    Johnny grew up helping his family in their nail salon, which meant he didn’t have what many would consider a typical childhood. He started doing nails as a teenager, even when people around him didn’t understand or respect what he was doing. Today, Johnny owns a successful nail salon and two restaurants.
    We also talk about meeting his wife, the role church played in his life, and some of the experiences he has had being treated differently because of his accent and being Asian.
    Johnny’s story is filled with family, sacrifice, faith, hard work, immigration, and the determination to build something better.
    Watch the full conversation and let me know what stood out to you in the comments.
    Watch on YouTube or listen on Spotify and Apple Podcasts.
    Search “Leaving My Echo Chamber.”

    1 hr 23 min
  • Growing Up Black in Tennessee & Facing Workplace Injustice | Leaving My Echo Chamber

    In this episode of Leaving My Echo Chamber, I sit down with Eric for a conversation about loss, family, identity, and growing up Black in a small Tennessee town.
    One of Eric’s very first childhood memories is the death of his little sister. Years later, he experienced another devastating loss when his father suddenly passed away from a heart attack. His dad was stern, a disciplinarian, and the only man Eric says he ever feared. Losing him changed Eric in ways he was still trying to understand.
    We talk about growing up in Hartsville, Tennessee, boxing, getting into trouble after his father’s death, and the questions Eric began asking about life, family, race, and what it means to be a Black man in America.
    I’m grateful to Eric for trusting me with his story and for being willing to have these conversations with me.
    Watch the full episode and let me know what stood out to you in the comments.
    Watch on YouTube or listen on Spotify and Apple Podcasts. Search “Leaving My Echo Chamber.”

    1 hr 12 min
  • From the Projects of Detroit to Successful Pastry Chef - A Story of Courage | Leaving My Echo Chamber

    What happens when you have to grow up long before you're ready?
    In this conversation, I sit down with Marlette to hear a story filled with hardship, unexpected turns, mistakes, faith, and ultimately, resilience.
    Marlette grew up in Detroit in the projects and lost her father when she was just four months old. At nine years old, witnessing a man being beaten with a bat changed the way she looked at the world. Then, at 13, her life changed again when she moved from Detroit to Fort Hood, Texas, a world that felt completely different from everything she had ever known.
    Not long after, Marlette's mom was diagnosed with stage 4 breast cancer. While trying to navigate being a teenager and going to school, Marlette also found herself becoming a caretaker for her mom and growing up much faster than she ever should have had to.
    Years later, she went to Baylor, met the father of her children, and eventually married him. But when his behavior began to change, Marlette started questioning whether he was being faithful. She eventually discovered that he was having an affair and had gotten another woman pregnant.
    We talk openly about what happened next, including abuse, leaving that relationship, going to jail, a DUI, addiction, complicated relationships, forgiveness, and the moments that forced Marlette to completely rethink her life.
    We also talk about her faith and how she reconciled some of the hardest things she experienced with her belief in God.
    Today, Marlette is a chef with dreams of opening her own business, and she shares what she's learned about survival, second chances, and continuing to dream even when life doesn't go according to plan.
    This conversation is honest, complicated, and at times difficult, but ultimately it's a story about finding your way forward.
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    1 hr 23 min
  • Life Through the Lens of Autism | Leaving My Echo Chamber

    What happens when you spend your whole life feeling different, only to discover there is a reason why?
    In this episode of Leaving My Echo Chamber, I sit down with Gray to hear his story of growing up in Memphis, Tennessee, navigating school, college, relationships, work, and life without knowing he was autistic.
    Gray shares what it was like to go through much of his life undiagnosed, learning how to navigate social expectations, follow unspoken rules, and adapt to a world that often felt like it was built differently than the way his brain worked. Years later, receiving an autism diagnosis helped him understand himself in a completely new way.
    We talk about masking, social scripts, mental health, faith, family, and what it looks like to stop seeing differences as something that needs to be fixed. Gray shares how autism impacts his life as a husband, father, and professional, and how learning to embrace the way he is wired has changed the way he sees himself.
    One of the biggest things I took away from this conversation is that living differently does not mean living incorrectly. Sometimes the things that make us different are the very things that make us unique and even valuable!
    I hope this conversation encourages you to listen with curiosity and see people a little differently.
    Join me as I continue leaving my echo chamber.

    1 hr
  • Inside the Inspiring Marriage Behind Bistro Huddy | Leaving My Echo Chamber

    One of the reasons I started Leaving My Echo Chamber is because I believe our stories help us understand each other in ways opinions never can. Especially with family!!
    In this episode, I'm joined by my brother, Drew Talbert, and my sister-in-law, Andrea Talbert, the husband-and-wife team behind Bistro Huddy.
    Long before millions of people were watching their videos online, Drew and Andrea were simply two coworkers at a restaurant who had no idea what their future would hold. They share the story of how they met, their unforgettable first date, and the moment Andrea realized Drew was everything she had been looking for, even if he didn't fit the picture she had imagined.
    We also talk honestly about one of the hardest seasons of Drew's life. Drew shares how his relationship with Andrea became one of the catalysts that motivated him to get sober, and Andrea opens up about choosing to walk alongside him through that journey.
    Of course, we couldn't have this conversation without talking about Bistro Huddy. Drew and Andrea take us behind the scenes of building one of the internet's most recognizable comedy brands, how they divide creative responsibilities, and why protecting their work-life balance has become one of their highest priorities.
    If this conversation encouraged you or gave you a new perspective, I'd love to hear from you in the comments. Your stories and thoughtful conversations are what make this community so special.

    31 min
  • What Happens When Two Completely Different Worlds Collide? | Andrea Talbert | Leaving My Echo Chamber

    In this episode of Leaving My Echo Chamber, I sit down with my sister-in-law, Andrea Talbert, for one of the most honest conversations we've ever had.
    Andrea shares what it was like growing up in South Florida, being raised by young parents, including navigating their divorce. We talk about the childhood she wishes she'd had, the people who shaped her, and why giving her own children a carefree childhood matters so deeply today.
    We also talk about our very different upbringings. Andrea was raised in a Jewish family, while I grew up in a devoted Evangelical Christian home where faith influenced nearly every part of life. When she started dating my brother, Drew Talbert, she found herself stepping into a family that looked very different from her own.
    Along the way, we explore how our backgrounds shape the way we see the world, from conversations about race, privilege, and financial inequality to the importance of listening before making assumptions. Andrea shares how her perspective has evolved over the years, and I open up about ways my own perspective has changed too.
    If this conversation challenged you, encouraged you, or gave you a new perspective, I'd love to hear from you in the comments. Your thoughtful conversations are what make this community so special.

    45 min
  • Drew Talbert: Addiction, Recovery & Why He Left Christianity | Leaving My Echo Chamber

    What happens when two siblings grow up in the same home, with the same parents, the same church, and the same beliefs... but end up on very different faith journeys?
    In this episode, I'm joined by my younger brother, Drew Talbert, whose career in entertainment and social media has reached millions of people. But this conversation isn't about social media. It's about the journey behind the person.
    We look back on our childhood growing up in a deeply Christian home where faith shaped nearly every part of our lives. Drew shares what led him to begin questioning the beliefs he was raised with, the moment he realized he no longer considered himself a Christian, and how that conversation impacted our family.
    Along the way, we talk about addiction, shame, recovery, creativity, success, failure, and the people who helped Drew find hope when he needed it most. He opens up about his arrest, his path to sobriety, and why sharing our stories can be one of the most powerful gifts we give each other.
    I'm so grateful Drew was willing to sit down with me and share his story with such honesty. I hope you'll listen with an open mind, and I'd love to hear what resonated with you after watching.
    If this conversation encourages you, consider sharing it with someone who might need it. Don't forget to subscribe so you never miss an episode of Leaving My Echo Chamber.

    1 hr 3 min
  • I Was Pregnant After the Worst Night of My Life (Part 2) | Leaving My Echo Chamber

    In Part 2 of my conversation with Kaci, we pick up where Part 1 left off: Kaci has just discovered she's pregnant after the worst night of her life.
    Together, we walk through the impossible decisions and conversations that followed. Kaci shares what it was like telling her parents she was pregnant, wrestling with whether to place her baby for adoption, and navigating a future she never could have imagined.
    We talk about the paternity test that confirmed which man was Ethan's father, and how she eventually told Ethan the truth about his story. Kaci also shares her thoughts on abortion, why she considers herself pro choice, and how her own experiences shaped her perspective.
    Our conversation explores the ways church communities can both wound and heal. Kaci opens up about being told she could no longer sing in the choir because she was single and pregnant, while also honoring the women who surrounded her with love, support, and a baby shower when she needed it most.
    Most of all, we talk about Ethan, the incredible young man he has become, and Kaci's message to churches everywhere: see the single moms. They are carrying more than most people realize.
    Kaci's story is one of heartbreak, resilience, grace, and hope. I'm so grateful she trusted me with it.
    I'd love to hear your thoughts after you listen.
    Watch on YouTube or listen on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you get your podcasts.

    59 min
  • I Was Pregnant After the Worst Night of My Life (Part 1) | Leaving My Echo Chamber

    I sit down with my friend Kaci to talk about her life growing up in a small town in South Carolina, her Southern Baptist upbringing, and the experiences that shaped her faith.

    We talk about what it was like being the daughter of a pastor, the painful church conflict that led to her father suddenly losing his job, and how that season changed the way she viewed faith and church. We also dive into Kaci's love of softball, her dreams of competing at the highest levels, her time at Belmont University, and how she built a successful business at a young age.

    But this conversation takes a turn when Kaci shares about a night that changed her life forever. What began as a girls' night out ended in unimaginable trauma, and just weeks later, she found herself facing an impossible question: she was pregnant, but she didn't know who the father was.Kaci is one of the most generous, resilient, and honest people I know. I am incredibly grateful for her willingness to share her story.

    This is Part 1 of Kaci's journey. Make sure you come back for Part 2.

    59 min
  • A Transgender Hospice Chaplain's Story | Leaving My Echo Chamber

    In this episode, I sit down with Dahron, a chaplain who has spent years walking with people through grief, hospice care, and some of life’s most tender moments. Dahron trained at the VA, served in bereavement and hospice spaces, and comes to this conversation with a deep understanding of what it means to sit with people in their hardest seasons.
    We talk about Dahron’s life growing up in the United Church of Christ, being married to a woman and raising a son, and the long personal journey of realizing she was transgender. Dahron shares what it was like knowing from a young age that something didn’t fit, and the decision in 2020 to transition outwardly into living as her true self.
    This conversation also goes into some of the most vulnerable parts of her story, including telling her wife she was going to transition and sharing her feelings with her mother while visiting her death bed.
    We also talk about faith, belonging, and what Dahron wishes more Christians understood about people like her. She speaks candidly about moments where she did not feel welcomed in society, including testifying in front of a committee on Capital Hill in Nashville, Tennessee, where she experienced disrespect while sharing her story.
    I am grateful for this conversation and for Dahron’s willingness to share her story with honesty and courage. My hope is that we can learn to listen more deeply, ask better questions, and love people more fully in the process.
    Please share your thoughts and stories in the comments.

    1 hr 22 min

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A conservative white southern Christian intentionally steps outside her comfort zone to understand and love people she previously avoided or judged. By sharing this journey in real time, the show…